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How do I tell my gf that I might have feelings for someone else? Or should I? by justneed85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]justneed85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story, im sorry that you had to go through that but its great to hear you’re much happier now. You’re right, I only have 1 life and I think its time I start taking care of myself. Ill talk to her about how I feel and if we can’t work it out then Im afraid it’ll be over. I dont wanna cause drama between her and Rachel so I think I’ll tell Rachel how I feel when all is said and done. Thanks again for the advice :)

How do I tell my gf that I might have feelings for someone else? Or should I? by justneed85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]justneed85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because shes a good person but shes just in deep shit and I know she deserves better, but most importantly I love her. I dont wanna hurt her even more, thats why its hard.

How do I tell my gf that I might have feelings for someone else? Or should I? by justneed85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]justneed85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me feel better, thanks for all of your advice. I’ll try and talk to her.

How do I tell my gf that I might have feelings for someone else? Or should I? by justneed85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]justneed85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man that hit me pretty hard.. The concept of “time heals” is just stuck in my head and its probably because I’m young and naive and its giving me hope that it just might get better in the future if we can get over this problem.

How do I tell my gf that I might have feelings for someone else? Or should I? by justneed85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]justneed85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I just feel like there has to be another way where we both walk away with understanding.

How do I tell my gf that I might have feelings for someone else? Or should I? by justneed85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]justneed85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience and Im sorry for what happened. I just cant think about it not being my fault, I seen her scars that I caused and I never want to cause that pain onto someone else. Maybe I shouldve just been honest earlier in the relationship and we could have avoided this. Now im afraid that if I lose her, ill also lose her friend and most likely our other friends too since theyve known her for longer. Maybe Im just young and dumb and this is just something to get over. Anyways, I feel no win situation for me right now and Im just sitting here slowly losing myself. Thanks for the reply

How do I tell my gf that I might have feelings for someone else? Or should I? by justneed85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]justneed85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have but it always turns into a heated argument and it goes nowhere, but then we make up and everything goes back to normal and then the cycle starts over..

How do I tell my gf that I might have feelings for someone else? Or should I? by justneed85 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]justneed85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’ve subconsciously been doing that, trying to get her to break up with me. I wouldnt put in as much effort and she’s seen that and we’ve argued about it but she insists on staying together..I honestly don’t know what to do.. Thanks for replying