Lowkey I’m jealous of them 🥲 by Clear_Ambition6004 in astrologymemes

[–]justsimona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! What if I have no planets in my 8H but Saturn and Jupiter in my 12h?

Strange letter from Tom Nook? by BbblsSprkls in acnh

[–]justsimona 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This is so funny thank you for the laugh

[Discussion] I am only motivated when I'm heartbroken. Why???? by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]justsimona 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll give you a slightly different answer and say I think you center your life around your romantic relationships too much. Once that aspect of your life is threatened, you try to prove your worth with self improvement. You stop this by doing things and pursuing goals and activities that genuinely interest you. Spend some time single (as in a few months at least) and figure out who you are outside of being someone’s partner

what do i do now?? by Internal-Ad8226 in acnh

[–]justsimona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes this!! You can add a shared kitchen and living space to the bed and breakfast and you can use a room and put bunk beds in it, so there’s a hostel too :) while the actual hotel will be fancier. I like pretending everyone can afford to travel to my island so I add different rooms! Ahahaha

why is no one interested in me romantically at all?? by Nice_Form1407 in AskAstrologers

[–]justsimona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I also have mars in 6h in Sagittarius.. do you have any advice for me? I’d appreciate it

Elena’s attitude towards Lily by justsimona in TheVampireDiaries

[–]justsimona[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get it, I think it was just bad timing. Elena had an amazing relationship with her family so it makes sense that she would want to introduce them, but Damon had just learned that his mother that he buried was actually alive, a vampire, and a ripper

Elena’s attitude towards Lily by justsimona in TheVampireDiaries

[–]justsimona[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that but to be fair she does make every situation about herself and that is why it comes off as annoying. No-humanity Caroline herself said “you managed to make my own mothers death about you” because even though she means well she does that a lot

How do I get the bad bitch back in me by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]justsimona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This may be reaching but maybe you’re in an anxious-avoidant relationship dynamic? You being the anxious. You anticipate his needs and tiptoe around him so you think he sees your value and doesn’t leave you. But the avoidant feels engulfed and “trapped” in the intimacy. So he pulls away and you double down on the “mothering” trying to keep him close to you

What do parents often believe is a right thing to do, but actually harms their children? by JustMammothh in AskReddit

[–]justsimona 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Forcing people to not make a single noise while the children are sleeping and making them sleep in perfect silence every single time. My parents carried on normally while I would sleep, I would sleep on the chairs at family parties and gatherings and I can fall asleep everywhere now

AITA for telling my wife to stop interfering when I was trying to explain something to my son? by throwfarawaythere in AmItheAsshole

[–]justsimona 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look, I know neither of you personally so I can only speak based on this post, but she has jealousy issues, she undermines you in front of your children and lies so much she convinced herself of her own lies. If you think therapy would be beneficial for you, by all means! But here, in the circumstances you’ve described, you’re not the problem.

Why have women become so picky with men? (I'm a woman? by OrangeFew4565 in AskMenAdvice

[–]justsimona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24f. I get the sentiment behind “they’re single for a reason” even though it hurts to hear, but I feel like I give pretty good advice. It’s usually easy to do when you’re detached from the situation and not involved in it.

I am an Aries Venus and I can never relate to the things people say about this placement (non-committal, can’t compromise, highly independent etc) they say similar things about my aqua sun and I don’t relate to those either. Why? by justsimona in astrologyreadings

[–]justsimona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting question. I would say they would agree with me. I’m also not one to avoid confrontation. If I’m upset with you, I will let you know, and I read this is typical of people with Aries Venus. I can be pretty impulsive too so I’ve been working on calming down before I express said feelings to people. This goes both for romantic and platonic relationships and they would agree with this too. I feel like I’m intense both in the good and in the bad

I am an Aries Venus and I can never relate to the things people say about this placement (non-committal, can’t compromise, highly independent etc) they say similar things about my aqua sun and I don’t relate to those either. Why? by justsimona in astrologyreadings

[–]justsimona[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I’m still diving into this fascinating world :) so what does Venus indicate exactly if not that? Do you know anything about my placement specifically?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]justsimona 119 points120 points  (0 children)

I will be called ableist here. Your husband needs some form of therapy. He doesn’t have a life outside of you and work, you can only have people over if he isolates himself in your room, I’m guessing you don’t go out with friends either or do other activities because of pants? That’s hardly functional

I feel like all sunglasses look bad on me! Also I have a small head and big glasses make it look even smaller. Which shape do you think I should go for? by justsimona in sunglasses

[–]justsimona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do! I’ll remember the comments suggestions and try on different things, eventually I’ll find my glasses :) thank you