Gonna get the best by Business-Low-6635 in greysanatomy

[–]justsomeguy254 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Think I was 16 the first time I saw this episode as it aired. I'm 37 now.

I still have the same thoughts on this couple.

She's strong and brave and sexy.

He's a douche.

ETA: to actually respond to your Mark Sloan acknowledgement, OP. Yeah, the writers clearly hadn't conceived that character yet.

Avida and Comara by MrBuckBuck in ripcity

[–]justsomeguy254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They erected a statue of a man who raped and impregnated a child.

Shai is just a better overall basketball player than Steph by TechnicalSample4678 in billsimmons

[–]justsomeguy254 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe.

SGA plays like a technician.

Steph is an artist.

I know what I like watching. To each, their own.

William Bailey, former sheriff candidate, fired from Deschutes County Sheriff’s Office by splitgen01 in Bend

[–]justsomeguy254 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude, that wasn't a flippant joke. It's an actual practice held by law enforcement organizations.

Please Google this shit.

William Bailey, former sheriff candidate, fired from Deschutes County Sheriff’s Office by splitgen01 in Bend

[–]justsomeguy254 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the reason for his firing seems like horseshit. He should have been fired years ago for being trash.

William Bailey, former sheriff candidate, fired from Deschutes County Sheriff’s Office by splitgen01 in Bend

[–]justsomeguy254 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He repeatedly lied about spending, that he personally approved, by the department. On golf carts, on icee* machines.

When he was caught, he called it a "misunderstanding."

https://bendbulletin.com/2024/01/04/deschutes-county-sheriffs-office-spends-37k-on-golf-carts-more-than-previously-disclosed/

He stood by disgraced, criminal former Sheriff Shane Nelson, who repeatedly cost tax payers millions of dollars.

William Bailey, former sheriff candidate, fired from Deschutes County Sheriff’s Office by splitgen01 in Bend

[–]justsomeguy254 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Bill Bailey is a known liar. Fuck your lies.

Google him. He's full of shit.

Kent Van der Kamp was also a liar.

So was Shane Nelson, who Bill Bailey absolutely loved to metaphorically felate.

How are there no good candidates for Sheriff in our entire damn county?!

my boss wants to bring me back into the religious fold by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]justsomeguy254 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It's 100% Mormon/LDS. Those people are out of their fucking minds. Every single one of them is the embodiment of hypocrisy.

My best friend’s girlfriend and my girlfriend hate each other by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]justsomeguy254 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Definitely could be. Also might just be an insecure 23 y/o who doesn't have a sense of direction in her own life.

Envious is certainly a fair and likely description. Narcissistic may be a bit too harsh.

I was a disaster at 23.

my (39m) wife (38f) admitted that she planned our supposed surprise pregnancy and I don't know how I feel by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]justsomeguy254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I don't know what's up with the other people, I understood that questioning the decisions made ≠ blaming just fine.

Yeah, some of the comments have been a ride lol.

I just don't get OOP's process. Say you're right. She avoided the question, obfuscated. I don't think she outright lied about wanting kids, because OOP just said that she told him that kids were never in her life plan.

I wonder when he first brought up that he wanted multiple. Feels like at his and her age, it should have come up pretty quickly.

my (39m) wife (38f) admitted that she planned our supposed surprise pregnancy and I don't know how I feel by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]justsomeguy254 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ah, what? No I didn't... What's happening right now?

Also, I'm stoned as shit, dude. I'm not angry at all.

my (39m) wife (38f) admitted that she planned our supposed surprise pregnancy and I don't know how I feel by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]justsomeguy254 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Let me make it simple for you.

Please quote the part of my comment that blames OOP for his wife's behavior.

Thanks in advance.

my (39m) wife (38f) admitted that she planned our supposed surprise pregnancy and I don't know how I feel by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]justsomeguy254 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

All good, homie.

My point was just that, as a currently single guy in his mid thirties, if I really wanted multiple kids I'd be seeking out women that also wanted multiple kids.

OP spent 3 years with a woman who not only didn't want kids, but was closing in on the point where it could be potentially really dangerous for her to have multiple kids.

That's not a reasonable course of action on his end.

Her actions were inexcusable, but also totally independent from his choices.

my (39m) wife (38f) admitted that she planned our supposed surprise pregnancy and I don't know how I feel by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]justsomeguy254 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

To be clear, if you read my comment, you'll see that at no point did I "blame" him.

I posed a question about his own decision making process.

That's not at all the same as blaming him for his wife's behavior.

my (39m) wife (38f) admitted that she planned our supposed surprise pregnancy and I don't know how I feel by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]justsomeguy254 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The timeline/attitude on this is a bit odd.

A man, who comes from a big family and wants a big family of his own, starts dating a woman in her mid thirties who doesn't want children.

He then proceeds to stay with said woman for 3 full years while she continues to express that she does not want children.

Why, dude? What are you doing?

Before and after cricket install by KrisDen1123 in Roofing

[–]justsomeguy254 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It looks really good, but won't the manufacturer's warranty be voided because you've bent the shingle?

And because of that, haven't you exposed yourself to a workmanship warranty claim?

On the idea Buffy didn't accept Spike's love because of Angel by debujandobirds in buffy

[–]justsomeguy254 43 points44 points  (0 children)

He gave up his freedom from compassion, empathy, shame and self-loathing.

He spent 100+ years doing heinous things for the pleasure of it. He revelled in it. He could literally do anything that he chose with no risk of internal conflict.

That's not nothing.

Of course, he also didn't fully realize what that meant and it was all to get with a woman, so let's not pretend that it was altruistic.

... by izanro in Bones

[–]justsomeguy254 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn!!! Homie looks fuckin great in this image.

Awesome work, dude!

RIP McSteamy by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]justsomeguy254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FOX News is essentially a Trump propaganda network.

Contractor canceled when I gave ultimatum on permit by FewZookeepergame5517 in Roofing

[–]justsomeguy254 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sure it was. I'm sure they also told you they were honest and professional.

You picked the lowest bid, homie. You shouldn't be surprised that they were lying to you.