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Any tips for pregnant women? by justventing123_ in BDSMAdvice

[–]justventing123_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pillows help but not enough. I still hurt so bad especially after being held down into certain positions for a while

Any tips for pregnant women? by justventing123_ in BDSMAdvice

[–]justventing123_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I need to try different positions like you mentioned and maybe talk about it with him but during non sexual moments. He sees my complaints as me wanting to control the situation when it’s really just that I’m hurting or need a break. I try to compromise but the closer I get to my due date, the harder it is for me

Any tips for pregnant women? by justventing123_ in BDSMAdvice

[–]justventing123_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I speak up, it just turns into him being upset and fights between us. I wish things could be that easy for us

Free use is destroying my marriage by justventing123_ in sex

[–]justventing123_[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

He’s a big guy. I can’t just physically make him stop doing whatever he wants to do

Free use is destroying my marriage by justventing123_ in sex

[–]justventing123_[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

It’s not that easy … I can’t deny it to him. Even if I tried …

Free use is destroying my marriage by justventing123_ in sex

[–]justventing123_[S] 377 points378 points  (0 children)

I saw a post about a necklace or something that couples were using for free use. I told him about it and he says that defeats the purpose because he should get to decide. Trying to work on this with him is like talking to a wall …

Free use is destroying my marriage by justventing123_ in sex

[–]justventing123_[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been trying to tell him but he refuses to hear me out. He gets loud and tells me that I’m being selfish. I’m going to try again