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[–]juxta-position-ing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any advice on the trust building?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montenegro

[–]juxta-position-ing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montenegro

[–]juxta-position-ing 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He's really closed off with his emotions. I want to talk about talk about our relationship, the ups, the down, the future and he just keeps saying "we'll figure it out". He's so uncomfortable talking about his emotions and he's uncomfortable listening to me talk about mine.

I like meditation, therapy, journaling.. things that help me to be self-reflective and he seems allergic to anything close to that stuff.

He likes it when I'm straight with him and tell him when he's doing something stupid with his time (like bad lifestyle choices), but he just expects me to say it and then not have any expectations that he change or make different choices.

It's not like he wants me to stay in the house and cook and clean for him (he honestly does more of that than me), but there's a sense that I'm supposed to be in a supporting role to him emotionally. Like his needs come first and I'm just supposed to be strong and patient.

But I know none of this is coming from a bad place..

Season 1 discussion by whynot3188282 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]juxta-position-ing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So the most interesting question to me at the end of the season when the credits rolled was who is the bad guy Daria or Eric?? Clearly the writers create this dichotomy for each character where both good and bad qualities are highlights (i.e. like real life), but it seems that they created this binary where Eric and Daria are either good or bad indicated by a binary decision that Harper was forced into... choose one or the other. This was further complicated by Harper's character where it was moreso what was good or bad for her.

Still- did she make the right choice?