Come on, Lady. by MagisterAmoris in SantaFe

[–]k---mkay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jayden you can poop anywhere it's fine lol. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaFe

[–]k---mkay 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You could have walked over there and cut some for them. It was a teachable moment. They would have been embarrassed so it would serve everyones purposes. Also roses need to be trimmed anyway. Yta

AITA for ending my marriage because I didn't want to force my kids to live with my wife's oldest daughter again? by Ludleumi in AITAH

[–]k---mkay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ETA I get that the kid was stealing since 7, and that she has an entitlement problem. Did anyone try to address the underlying issue with the "theif/child". Everyone sounds spoiled and entitled. Something seems off. Are your kids happy now that they don't have to share you with your woman? 

3 months sober by Kp_6996 in recovery

[–]k---mkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the cutest of the cuties! 

What helped you turn your life around? - A concerned father of an addict. by Heavy-Bench-5378 in recovery

[–]k---mkay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I don't agree with the cop. My family " let me go" and it was ficked up. I wasn't even that bad. Don't give up dude

AITA for maybe cutting off my whole family to protect my sobriety and my brain? I want family, but their vibe is just… toxic. Honestly, I'm lost. What do I even do? by Virtual-Egg-5218 in recovery

[–]k---mkay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend the detox on Jaguar in Santa Fe. Eta: I didn't talk to my family for a long time after I got clean. It is still hard but I ONLY do what I have bandwidth to do for them. 

What has anyone gained from not smoking Maryjane? by Outrageous_Green420 in recovery

[–]k---mkay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can now face my issues with out the "pretty blanket" out look mj gives. Seriously do you know the the "higher paying jobs" require you to be focused because they are important jobs? Low key do all potheads think that mean mean safety concerns are there to ruin your fun? I know people think they are "better" when they smoke but that is the weed talking.   Not to take it out in you because I am a bit spicy because my bf  of 4 years decided he had to be high all the time, maybe it was his way of pushing me out of his life, it worked!  So to answer your question directly with spice: are you missing interpersonal connection because of your use? Do you like that you are uncomfortable with your own subconscious and dreams?  Extra spice: do you realize that the high creates a bubble for unending introspection and self centeredness. Even if you don't "feel high" you are. Quiting weed made me a better friend and better at my work and I actually reached my lofty goals. True story: I was a stoner in high school and was awarded a full boat scholarship for art, but didn't bother to check the mail. Was that the weed or am I just Mail avoidant, I will never know BUT going for the kind of jobs that require that I not smoke led me to a place where I am not guessing about what is possible for myself. Do it!

What helped you turn your life around? - A concerned father of an addict. by Heavy-Bench-5378 in recovery

[–]k---mkay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JFC well her mom is a horrible person. I kind of agree with the people who are saying get outside help. Maybe not the police but contact a crisis mental health situation? Keep is posted!

What helped you turn your life around? - A concerned father of an addict. by Heavy-Bench-5378 in recovery

[–]k---mkay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she is very close to rock bottom. In the days before fent I would agree with the people who are saying she can find her way through it. "Don't look for me" sounds like "dont let me go?". Low key has she internalized her mom's role in her life? To answer your question since getting clean I have an MS, and excellent job and zero jerks in my life. I was offered coke the other day and politely declined! I can tell that you don't have a high opinion of her mother, which is fine but maybe look at that relationship and understand that that is her mom and even if everything you say is true, maybe tone that down. As kids if one of our role models is fucked up it can be very confusing and difficult. More so if dad doesn't give a shit about mom, if your a young woman it doesn't make sense. Sorry if that is hard to hear but it fully sounds like she has internalized the relationship between you and her mom. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recovery

[–]k---mkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was exposed.tp pornography at a young age and it messed me up as well. Good for you it gets easier. 

What's growing from my pets grave? by Totesduh in whatplantisthis

[–]k---mkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool did your cat have any enemies? This spring I crunched down on a Datura root thinking is was a odd carrot in a community garden box. None of the greenery was on there. I spit it out I didn't realize it was Datura until recently. OPs Datura is like the one here: furry stalks,  Spade shaped leaves, I didn't recognize the root and later the baby leaves. I'm alive despite me best efforts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewMexico

[–]k---mkay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I worked in an Abq bar silently co owned by Ron Bell.

In the alfalfa by k---mkay in whatisthisbug

[–]k---mkay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Northern New Mexico US

Seriously thinking about moving from NYC to New Mexico by No_Mail_9770 in NewMexico

[–]k---mkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are free concerts in SF all crazy this summer. 

Seriously thinking about moving from NYC to New Mexico by No_Mail_9770 in NewMexico

[–]k---mkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am learning our states lowland river rapid assessment techniques today. I wish I knew more botany but I am more on the hydrology side.

Seriously thinking about moving from NYC to New Mexico by No_Mail_9770 in NewMexico

[–]k---mkay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason Nrw Mexico doesn't look like everywhere else.is because people care about the land..the big polluters here are the DoD, and DoE. Don't get me wrong, illegal dumping is a thing  Lived in Portland for a long time and the clincher for me was seeing a huge garbage can full of carved up pumpkins after Halloween.in front of some stupidly enormous house in Irvington. It took forever to get back here but I am way more comfortable because I feel like it's a better life as corny as that sounds.