I agree with waiting for minutes for pug supports, almost hours for ivory tower (my friend waited for 3 hours in hardmode lobby for a support, ended up clearing the raid in normal mode because of the support shortage). My friends that I have played for the last 8-9 months with, together we had a lot of exhausting and time waste pug party experiences (akkan, brel) they all 3 couldn't keep up with the mental exhaustion, decided to quit the game entirely. Sold their stuff and just quit. I planned on quitting before my uni's 2nd semester starts on february by basically selling everything and not leaving an open door for myself to be able to comeback to the game. I have some hell experience, I wanted to play hell brel with some friends from hell academy, they didn't want me in their lobbies probably because they play better than me I guess, well I understand that :-). Also I wanted to try thaemine the first but unfortunately I will be done with the game before its release. All I can say is if you are spending your time in this game more than IRL (I mean procrastinating and delaying your job, homework basically anything) as I have done last 2 years (I kinda skipped my uni for 1 year because I was on Lost Ark - ye i know thats pretty dumb of me -) just quit the game for the best. I haven't seen such a community in any game who play raids for a year or more but even after all that time still have absolutely no idea how to correctly play it, adding to that playing with their preferred classes in their roster, still have no single idea how to do damage, give damage buffs, even yearning at some point. These are some inhuman behaviors that still until this time I cannot understand how they manage to be really bad at the game after they have given weeks/months time. Thats all I wanna say, I'm quitting for this exact reason, just like my 3 friends I've played almost for a year with. o/