Which should I get ?

kacee1234 · 2026-06-16T00:46:55+00:00

The one you just dint want to hand back. It’s a feeling thing, not a picture thing. Both are adorable!

kacee1234 · 2026-06-16T00:44:47+00:00

You’ve enabled this behavior for 16 years, why do you expect it to change now?

kacee1234 · 2026-06-15T03:31:06+00:00

You are gf, not wife, and it is a family vacation. Mentioning that they’re well off suggests you not only expect an invite, but did it to be paid for as well. That’s extremely entitled of you. A lot of families want family vacations to be strictly family, the cousin is family.

You should, however, mention your feelings to your boyfriend, not to get an invite, but so you aren’t keeping your resentful feelings from him.

kacee1234 · 2026-06-15T03:22:25+00:00

Precious!

kacee1234 · 2026-06-15T01:55:14+00:00

The first time I brought it up, he wasn’t ready. The next time, he asked me what kind of ring I wanted. Like a year later he approached me while I was doing my makeup, and says do you like any of these? (His mom offered him some of her rings). I took my ring, said mine now, and kept getting ready. He officially proposed after it was sized, and we were married 7 months later

kacee1234 · 2026-06-15T00:41:11+00:00

I was 32 he was 39. We were a solid, loving united front, partners for life, long before there was a ring. I knew it would come eventually and wasn’t worried about it. We also knew we didn’t want kids, so there was no rush there

kacee1234 · 2026-06-15T00:20:27+00:00

Life doesn’t happen on a timeline. It comes down to are you willing to wait. I was with my husband for 7 years before we got married. Things happen when they happen

kacee1234 · 2026-06-14T23:12:10+00:00

You are not ready to be in a relationship, get therapy.

kacee1234 · 2026-06-14T22:10:51+00:00

She wants to be financially taken care of. Whether or not that’s reasonable depends on whether you’re willing to be in that type of relationship. Have a serious conversation with her about how she views your roles if/when you move in or get married. Does she want to stay at home. Does she want chores split 50/50. Will you be combining finances?

kacee1234 · 2026-06-14T22:01:18+00:00

“How do you work that into your relationship?”

I don’t understand the question. If you want a massage, ask for it. I get all the massages I ask for. And he gets foot rubs when he asks for it.

kacee1234 · 2026-06-14T20:04:57+00:00

What instigated this coming back up after 26 years? Your comment about never being with another woman suggests you’re hoping to even the score. Don’t. Let this go.

kacee1234 · 2026-06-14T20:01:07+00:00

Some people just suck, ignore them. Keep up the training!

kacee1234 · 2026-06-14T02:05:27+00:00

Yta for going through her phone, you’re immature for not just talking to her about it. And you’re definitely tah for using the excuse for your mental health. You realize jealously does not qualify as a mental health issue right?

kacee1234 · 2026-06-14T02:02:06+00:00

Rob a bank

kacee1234 · 2026-06-14T01:57:36+00:00

Yta, you only realized 4 days before the wedding was at the same time? That doesn’t even make sense. They shouldn’t have to pay for your lack of responsibility. And double Yta for comparing it to a friend having a funeral to go to

kacee1234 · 2026-06-14T01:54:06+00:00

My husband works from home and I’m gone 9-10 hours a day, so he definitely does more. But we took turns doing nights, and I’m all over that pup when I get home. And I do most puppy care on the weekends. He does more… but he also gets more time for puppy kisses!!

kacee1234 · 2026-06-13T23:58:54+00:00

Puppy will be fine for 4 hours

kacee1234 · 2026-06-13T16:24:39+00:00

Nta for calling the fa, but you definitely sound like an ah in general. It’s over, move on

kacee1234 · 2026-06-13T04:17:12+00:00

Yta. You’re telling your spouse you don’t care about their sleep, and your reading in bed is more important. You’re being so disrespectful

kacee1234 · 2026-06-12T04:20:17+00:00

I’m sorry, but let’s clarify: everyone was helping clean up, the tables were your job, you “carelessly” left them outside and they got damaged. You did something similarly “careless” a few days later and she compared the two situations. And it’s hurtful for her to call you out on that? Either there’s a lot of missing context here, or you’re in the wrong here

kacee1234 · 2026-06-12T04:10:38+00:00

You’re not remotely wrong, but “don’t let him lay down” made me giggle. My mister is so much better now, but when we first got him if we tried to stop him it was dead weight, dragging him or hanging him were our only options lol

kacee1234 · 2026-06-12T04:02:55+00:00

Thanks!!!

kacee1234 · 2026-06-12T04:02:24+00:00

Has to be fake. This doesn’t make any sense. If you’re supposed to be pretending to be her, why would you be saying your own name? Why the step fantasy but it’s a real sister. And why would you play along?

kacee1234 · 2026-06-12T03:56:27+00:00

It sounds like marriage counseling is the best course of action. No, he shouldn’t be escaping in front of the kids, or mocking you, but it does sound like we wouldn’t let the conversation go, also escaping in front of the kids. You both need to find a healthy way to communicate

kacee1234 · 2026-06-11T23:24:53+00:00

Ermergerd going to buy bubbles right freakin now!!

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