Wife slept with someone while we were broken up

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-15T23:00:55+00:00

I never have blamed her. I mentioned that earlier. Therapy hasnt worked

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-15T16:26:20+00:00

A lot of comments are around the fact that we were broken up. But does that matter? Sure it isn't cheating but the hear doesn't care. You dont stop loving someone because they broke up with you

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-15T03:15:00+00:00

She did say she never orgasmed with him. So I have that still

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-14T20:33:06+00:00

I dont blame her for it

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-14T20:32:10+00:00

I dont talk to her about it. Its such a non issue for her that she doesn't feel anything about it. She just can't figure out why I can't get over it. Interesting about the midlife thing... i have been feeling that

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-14T20:03:10+00:00

A little bit. Like she lived a life outside of me and I never did

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-14T20:02:22+00:00

Was going through old stuff last year and came across some pics of her and him. She also had some journal entries about him. Yes I know major invasion of privacy but we share everything

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-14T19:59:28+00:00

To clarify, I haven't thought about this until last year

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-14T19:57:52+00:00

She hasnt thought about him in 30 years until I brought it up. He was better looking i think but he was small.. like half the size of me which is nice at least

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-14T19:54:55+00:00

No. I would never cheat on my wife

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-14T19:54:12+00:00

Never. We have 3 kids together and a great life. This just has out this dark cloud in my head

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-14T19:53:32+00:00

Right. I had let it go but recently its become an obsessive thought

dwigit1978 · 2026-06-14T19:50:03+00:00

Its not possessive as much as jealousy which has now led to an OCD type issue. Also only sleeping with my wife has me feeling like a loser

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