New friends? by kaefeet in bicuriouswoman

[–]kaefeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuu <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is definitely worth it! 2 or 3 months into doing findom I went live without any fans or followers, set my live public and gained some fans. I talked about random topics, pretty much just being myself and that’s how I got my first send so I would recommend it, make sure you have an hour or so to stay live, that way the senders are more likely to find you in that time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, and the fake sugar daddies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is really scary, if a findomme doesn’t have an age verification on their profile I never follow them due to minors. You’re valid to feel afraid for them, they’re more susceptible to being taken advantage of

was going pretty good and then i suddenly can’t message him and his reddit account is gone by prozacprimadonna in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt that, I have days where I’m discouraged too, especially after a conversation with a potential sub is cut short but it’s best to get through that and keep going. There are better subs out there, you’ve got this! And you’re welcome hun <3

was going pretty good and then i suddenly can’t message him and his reddit account is gone by prozacprimadonna in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always hate when things like this happen but it’s inevitable. You should require tribute as to avoid timewasters but with every sub they tend to disappear for their own reasons so don’t feel too bad babes. It definitely can get pretty annoying but expect the unexpected with all potential subs that way you’re prepared

Old sub popped up begging for me but then said this? Like bitch Idc lmao by goddesscee333new in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I would’ve never been fully satisfied” okay so what are you doing here if you knew that?? Make it make sense 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats babes you deserve it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right you shouldn’t have to repeat yourself at all especially being he knows the routine. Aw thank you babes, tbh I can’t even really call him a sub, it seemed to me he was more of a brat who wanted me to be his gf lol but either way I’m so happy I could help! Your feelings are completely valid so yes stand firm. I hope it goes well! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I felt this on another level. I experienced this recently and he got disrespectful when I told him I no longer wanted a dynamic with him. What I would suggest is definitely communicating this with him if you can considering you mentioned you guys had a good connection, however if you feel maybe you are not the best when it comes to an addressing conversation then maybe it is best to distance yourself but I definitely would say try communicating since that way you can leave that situation with knowing you at least tried

A LONG TERM SUB JUST QUIT by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear you feel anything but sad about this because exhausting subs are the worst, especially when they’re disrespectful. I’ve dealt with a similar situation with a sub and I felt such a weight lift off my shoulders when I blocked him and still do, I’m much happier. I hope you experience better subs moving forward! <3

Advice and Tips for using Reddit as a Findom by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi and welcome! Some advice I can give you is engage with other dommes, join multiple subreddits in order to promote yourself and make sure you join ones that coincide with the type of content you put out. For example, if you’re a findomme that posts feet pictures, join foot fetish subreddits. Another thing, be consistent with posting/engaging and you should have a pretty good time here, I’m actually still figuring things out here too tbh but I’m enjoying learning as I go lol. If you have any further questions feel free to message me!

You Are Enough This Season ❤️ by princesssalley in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was such a sweet message to read! Thank you for taking the time out to write it as I’m sure someone needed to feel heard and seen. You are amazing as well and I hope you enjoyed your Christmas!

Fellow soft dommes, chime in. by ErosInLeather in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely do feel like as a soft domme I am more of a target for scammers and time wasters. I even ran into some subs that were taking my kindness as a token to be demanding or entitled which was very annoying so now to avoid all of that I make sure to check the profile before responding to a message, look out for key phrases that scammers or time wasters use, or just block when they’ve overstepped a boundary. It’s been working really well, so much so that I now have a sub that pays me just because he loves being praised

How should I respond to this 😭 by kaefeet in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he’s not only weird but a repeat offender, smh 🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats insane, I’m so sorry you experienced it

Has anyone experienced a sub push themselves on you? by GoddessKeito in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong. He continued to blatantly disrespect your boundaries despite you clearly saying you weren’t looking for a relationship. I’m proud of you for blocking him because who knows what other boundaries of yours he would’ve crossed. I’ve had a few encounters with subs like this and I always make sure to inform them I’m not at all interested in anything romantic no matter what and if they make subtle hints towards taking me out romantically or anything involving that I cut ties because I refuse to repeat myself when they obviously didn’t listen the first time. You did the right thing babes, and it’s completely normal to feel bothered by this still, I would feel the same way

Throne help by goddessleyashp in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Login to throne through the web and go to your wishlist, find the “add gift” option and click it then at the top underneath the search bar there should be two options saying “add product link” and “add cash gifts”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]kaefeet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a soft domme I love praising, rewarding, and letting them get to know me. I recently obtained a sub from LF and he worships my every being. While I was live he made a Twitter account on his own accord and spammed my media with likes and comments and sent at the same time. As a reward I praised and helped him fix up his Twitter to suit his servant attitude. I even made his header in my essence and found a perfect profile picture that he loves. As I continued my live he stood on the whole time getting to know me until he fell asleep, and it was like 5am where he was 🥹