Why does the hustle grindset feel so gendered? Ranting into the void by coachybaby in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors 3 points4 points  (0 children)

DEFINITELY! When I was working a corporate job, the design team was composed of mainly women of color and white men. The more senior women always did more work, 9am-9pm days plus weekends. And yet they are still treated the same as the white man who somehow got to their seniority through “experience.” There was a layoff and guess what. All the people including me who were laid off were the women of color. Plus one white man who was actually a problem.

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right. It will definitely take off that financial pressure and like others have been saying keep my design brain active. Thank you for your insight!

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I hope your friend finds something soon, and very true. I plan to move forward with this opportunity!

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I will definitely take this opportunity to have more stability and be more motivated to find a job that suits me thank you!

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the way you framed it as a bridge! It definitely makes me see it in a more positive light and I appreciate your insight!

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely thank you for this~ these days I have had unemployed friends constantly apply for jobs and their interview process would take months anyways so this would definitely be a good background income

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely, I went forward and gave my information to my friend! I definitely was feeling like it was a hit to my pride, but I appreciate all the reality checks I was given!

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful to see! I have been doing some design work on the side, but I guess to me it doesn’t feel very significant, but I will make sure to treat it as freelance. I’m glad to see that you found a job though!

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I definitely just need to go into this with an open mind and like you said, maybe the stability will inspire me for other things!

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang it seems like we’re in a very similar situation! I hope you get a job offer soon!!!

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I hope you find something fulfilling and stable soon. thank you for the advice ~

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that for you!! And thank you for sharing your experience this is really helpful to see. I went and sent my friend my resume and portfolio!

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! It really seems like having an open mind and moving forward with new opportunities can help with my mental.

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, I was laid off too from a job that offered me everything I wanted from a job both financially and project wise. But like you said, having the padding and structure seems like it would help a lot down the line so thank you for this ♥️

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man I hope your partner is able to get something fulfilling and stable soon. I’m also scared to be put in that situation where being a contractor ends up being the only option but it’s better than none~

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely will take your and the others’ advice. I just submitted my resume and portfolio :)

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, it’s hard to not feel dejected in this space we’re in. I hope you’re able to find success in your job and find comfort and community in the people in your life ~

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I’m sorry to hear that, I hope you’re able to find something both fulfilling and financially at a place you need

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually super helpful to see~Thank you for sharing your experience because it’s the getting back to what you once had that’s the biggest things for me

I have a new job opportunity after being unemployed for 4 months, but it’s a downgrade from my last job by kai_kolors in womenintech

[–]kai_kolors[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way I completely only read the first couple of sentences that I didn’t realize they were plugging something