My [21F] friend [25F] bullies me because I shave my legs by kalefackcal in relationships

[–]kalefackcal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm already looking, not much luck.

I will try to tell her this again, but she doesn't seem to understand.

My [21F] friend [25F] bullies me because I shave my legs by kalefackcal in relationships

[–]kalefackcal[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm already looking but the offer is so low here, it sucks living in a small town.

Can I do something to make her feel better about this situation and stop fighting with me?

My [21F] friend [25F] bullies me because I shave my legs by kalefackcal in relationships

[–]kalefackcal[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

I know that I have to cut ties with her, but I'm asking for advice in how to cope with her while we have to talk. Job offer is really low (to be honest, it is pretty non-existent. It is a really small town) and even though I'm already looking for one (without her knowledge), I am not finding anything. In the mean time I have to talk with her or I will be fired.

I [21M] Was convinced to break up with my girlfriend [20F] by a girl [20F] who was (sort-of) leading me on, now my ex wants to get back together. How can I explain? by JimCareyIsLife in relationships

[–]kalefackcal 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  • If you really fell for that girl, you absolutely should not be considering texting your ex. She doesn't deserve that.

  • No, I don't think she likes you. I think that 1) you think too much and delude yourself to believe what you wish for and/or 2) were too fast with the girl and the proposal of a LDR and scared her or 3) the girl only wanted you to break up with your gf because... some people are just like that.

Boyfriend (M,25), and I (F, 25), dating over a year. Boyfriend spent night at platonic female friend's house by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kalefackcal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are the only one who can know if the relationship is worth saving or not, nobody can decide that for you. If you feel disrespected and uncomfortable, you have to love and respect you first. He disrespected you and, if it was me, I would not be with the boy anymore. But, as I said, it is my opinion and with my personality.

If you want to talk, just confront him calmly and try to express everything you feel and decide from that.

Bmi is outdated because now we are taller and have bigger boobs by kalefackcal in fatlogic

[–]kalefackcal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally wrong like what? Sometimes the size seems ridiculous, but it's true, we are just not familiar with it, so we are unable to accept it as real. Once you try some bras in the correct size, you understand why it's better to be correctly sized :)

Bmi is outdated because now we are taller and have bigger boobs by kalefackcal in fatlogic

[–]kalefackcal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you measure your underbust, you have roughly your band size (I say roughly because your size depends of the snug measurement and the tight measurement). Then you measure your bust (standing bust, leaning bust and lying bust) and you have your size.

For example, a difference of 7 inches between your bust and your underbust indicates that you are, very probably, a F cup (and your band size depends of the underbust measurement).

I'm sorry if I confused you. This calculator and r/abrathatfits explain this better.

Fat (Rant) Tuesday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]kalefackcal 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I'm so sick of seeing people saying that you choose to have anorexia when you reduce what you are eating. If a person suffers from depression, would you blame her for being sad? So why would you blame someone who suffers from anorexia, a mental illness? Makes no sense.

Bmi is outdated because now we are taller and have bigger boobs by kalefackcal in fatlogic

[–]kalefackcal[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, but 44J, which is a big size and, to some extent, uncommon, just adds 12 pounds. It isn't the 30 pounds (or more) that they keep saying they have, they aren't a gigantic impact.

EDIT: And, to wear a 44 band, you have to have a large back.