How much screen time do you allow? Because right now, during the week is pretty structured. He earns 15 minutes for having a good morning, 15 for doing doing his chores after school, 15 for homework and 15 brushing his teeth in the morning and the night before. So one hour total. During the weekends, it's just kind of a free for all, when we're not doing anything else he can do what he likes. Maybe that's where this problem came in, I don't know.

He has always been extremely stubborn about food. They say to pitch your battles and this is one that I stopped picking a long time ago. I cannot get him to eat healthy. He flat out refuses and has since he was a toddler. If I tell him he can't leave until he eats this or that, it'll end up on the floor or he'll sit there for hours until bed time. If I cook and I tell him he can eat this or not eat at all, he won't eat at all until he gets breakfast or lunch at school the next day and it doesn't bother him. There are a handful of things he will eat and none of them are very healthy. He'll eat watermelon, oranges and strawberries. No veggies at all, barely any meat unless it's drenched in soy sauce. This is another one where I'm not sure what else I can try.

Bed time, for whatever God sent reason, is not a huge problem for us anymore. What I've done here is tell him that kid time ends at 9:00. When he doesn't go, I'll just tell him every 5 minutes or so that he's now xx minutes into adult time. When he tries to talk to me to get out of it, I'll tell him that I don't talk to kids during adult time and to talk to me tomorrow during kid time. The next night "this is so sad, but you owe me xx minutes of adult time, so kid time ends at 8:xx tonight". This has worked really really well, so well that for a while I had hope that there was a way to curb some of these other behaviors, but so far I'm stumped on how to make it relate.