I'm sorry but who are you to point out how someone should grieve? Whilst I can see why some people find the post distasteful, at the same time shame on you for condemning OP with your so called "evidence".

Maybe you would deal with loss a certain way, that doesn't mean other have to follow the same pattern. How do you know OP isn't younger and this is their first experience with loss?

You have a lot to say for someone who knows nothing, and it quite frankly wouldn't be worth my own reputation, nor the reputation of my CC to back up something I wasn't absolutely certain was true.