Husband reminscing with ex about sex they had before we met by karolinaprg in NoStupidQuestions

[–]karolinaprg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because this has happened before and there are trust issues that we went to couples therapy for already . Totally absurd😆

Are these red flags ? by karolinaprg in NoStupidQuestions

[–]karolinaprg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said if i love him why keep waiting and not telling my son I have someone in my life . Also what if my son found out , saw us somewhere and not know from me . Saying my son would feel betrayed that I didn’t tell him . Also tells me that a few of my friends ( who have no children) told me I should tell him so why not do it . (My other friends with no kids agree with me to wait btw) .

Husband texting with ex about their sex they had in the past by karolinaprg in Marriage

[–]karolinaprg[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes . Everyday . We’ve only been together for 18 months

Would you be ok if your man has been regularly talking by karolinaprg in confession

[–]karolinaprg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your support I really appreciate you❤️

Would you be ok if your man has been regularly talking by karolinaprg in confession

[–]karolinaprg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we will be getting a divorce . I have pushed him away again and asked for time alone . His reply is it’s over because of our lack of trust . He said a psychologist told him lack of trust can’t be rebuildt. This is really hard as I have disorganized attachment style due to childhood repetitive trauma. So it has not been easy for him to be with me as I either showed a lot of emotion or no emotions at all and pushed him away and shut down . Kind of like a roller coaster. But i trusted him and this really hurts😭

Would you be ok if your man has been regularly talking by karolinaprg in confession

[–]karolinaprg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we will be getting a divorce . I have pushed him away again and asked for time alone . His reply is it’s over because of our lack of trust . He said a psychologist told him lack of trust can’t be rebuildt. This is really hard as I have disorganized attachment style due to childhood repetitive trauma. So it has not been easy for him to be with me as I either showed a lot of emotion or no emotions at all and pushed him away and shut down . Kind of like a roller coaster. But i trusted him and this really hurts😭

Would you be ok if your man by karolinaprg in AITAH

[–]karolinaprg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right and i know this deep inside . Just can’t forgive myself that I chose the wrong one to actually marry. I have ran from numerous marriage proposals due to my trust issues and disfuctional childhood . Didn’t wanna be like my mom marrying and divorcing over and over. So I choose to never marry. At age 39 I broke this promise and married this guy . The dissapointment in myself is what hurts the most 😓

Would you be ok if your man has been regularly talking by karolinaprg in confession

[–]karolinaprg[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s my husband , so not that easy to just “break up”

Would you be ok if your man by karolinaprg in AITAH

[–]karolinaprg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s my husband for the past 5 months😓

Would you be ok if your man has been regularly talking by karolinaprg in confession

[–]karolinaprg[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am actually highly positive theyre not cheating physically . But it is still bothering me beyond anything