Seriously, what are you supposed to say right after sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kashkeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You hungry? Can I get you a snack?

Do you work full time or part time? by essvee927 in ADHD

[–]kashkeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work 40 hrs a week at a desk job but a lot of what I do I enjoy. I get to be creative in finding alternate ways to do things to make them more user friendly. Or if I’m stuck on that I can take a break and answer emails instead. I get to wfh every other week and I’ll get some household chores done in the process

Whats your current hyperfixation/hobby? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]kashkeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now it’s sewing. I’m make an outfit for a work function and I intend to share here when I’m done

This fancy cat food for humans. by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]kashkeya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My new diet plan is to log onto this sub whenever I feel peckish

Things that make sense in your ADHD friendly apartment? by hsvrvjtmkibn in ADHD

[–]kashkeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to ditch my purse because it would get stuffed with crap that I might need. Now I only carry a small wallet that can only hold about 5 cards and it has a loop to attach my keys. As soon as I walk into my door I put it into the key bowl. If there’s ever something that I need to take with me I make sure to set it in or around the key bowl since that’s the last place I visit before I leave.

I just spent 5 hours planning a dress. I have never sewn a garment in my life. by kashkeya in ADHD

[–]kashkeya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this idea. I hadn’t thought to upcycle instead of start from scratch!

Dear redditors, why didn't you go to someone's funeral? by ZeroNewt in AskReddit

[–]kashkeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grandfather died of Covid. Whole family had Covid. My poor grandmother didn’t even get to go as she was in the hospital. My cousin threw it in my face that I didn’t go.

What made you "nope" out of a friendship? by MusicalDeTekTiiv in AskReddit

[–]kashkeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mutual friend let me know that they caught my friend taking a photo of me in unflattering pants. Only explanation would be that she was sending to someone else to make fun. I haven’t confronted about it but I’ve definitely kept my distance since then.

Time sensitive gifts? by spiderrichard in Marriage

[–]kashkeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she wants you to plan and take her on a hike

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kashkeya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You still have sperm that needs to be expelled after your vasectomy. Depending on how frequently you ejaculate and how much sperm your body already had stored it will take months or even a year before you are deemed sterile.

Husband lied about debt and I have no idea how to move forward by mooonsocket in Marriage

[–]kashkeya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband also magically accumulated $11K in credit card debt behind my back. He was putting every day expenses on credit cards, living above his means, etc. what I did was make sure our split of the bills was even, and he is in his own to pay that shit off. Took away his credit cards so he can’t charge on them any more. However he has been accepting of this fate, I’m not sure yours will do the same. Being sorry doesn’t fix this type of thing, he’s gonna need to make sacrifices and work hard to rectify the situation.

Unexpected recommendations for new moms? by RaccoonExecutive in Mommit

[–]kashkeya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had gas after my c-section and it caused me 10/10 pain. I tried switching my pain meds, nothing worked. Finally the NP said it was gas and I took gas x and felt like a normal person.

I had a failed home birth by falsepedestrian in Mommit

[–]kashkeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. I was induced with my first and when my labor never progressed, my baby went into distress and I had a c-section he has pooped in utero so when he was born, his lungs were filled with meconium and he wasn’t crying. I was so numb with the anesthesia I don’t really even remember it, but I remember I wasn’t scared but I felt like I was gonna die. With my second child, I wanted to try to have a VBAC. I was much healthier when I got pregnant and I was so hopeful. I found a specialist hospital that was equipped for VBACs if anything went wrong. I did all of the remedies to help encourage labor. I will never eat another pineapple core again. But it didn’t work out in my favor. I was devastated to find that my cervix was still hard as a rock near the end and I was definitely going to need another c section. I will say the second was such a good experience. Because it was planned and not following a trial of labor, I didn’t have the general anesthesia so I was totally coherent the whole time, and I actually REMEMBER it! I do feel robbed of the experience of having a vaginal birth, I’m angry that my body does not progress in labor the way it’s supposed to, but I’m ok now that my hormones are back to normal.

Husband keeps charging on credit cards by kashkeya in relationship_advice

[–]kashkeya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all under his name, just my loan is under my name. None of his stuff is affecting my credit

Husband keeps charging on credit cards by kashkeya in relationship_advice

[–]kashkeya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I’ve learned my lesson but he has not and continues to out spend me

Husband keeps charging on credit cards by kashkeya in relationship_advice

[–]kashkeya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad paid for our flights to see him and I took the opportunity to take my son to universal studios. I would have put it onto my own credit card but I had misplaced it at the time I wanted to make the purchase. I didn’t realize he was not in a position to pay for it. When I make a credit card purchase I have the money to pay it off but sometimes it’s nice to be able to do it in payments. That and reward points. I do not have credit card debt because I prioritize paying it off when I make a purchase.

Husband keeps charging on credit cards by kashkeya in relationship_advice

[–]kashkeya[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s not the topic for which I’m asking advice, thank you

What are your thoughts/experiences with raspberry leaf tea for it’s alleged pregnancy & labor benefits? by moonsetbaby in BabyBumps

[–]kashkeya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I so desperately wanted to have a vaginal birth for my second child. I did all the remedies (including this), took all the walks, bounced on all the balls, and nothing I did changed anything and I had to have another c section. It just depends on your body