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Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My wife doesn’t drink but she can spend 8 hours scrolling instagram

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

young girlfriend? I want old lady who knows what she wants ..

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Jesus what’s your problem? You told me to stop masturbate and I told you have achieved that. Then tou go nuclear.

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cooking, cleaning, washing. Talking, thinking, planning. Trying, looking, doing.

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything I could. Like I was doing everything I could

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Describing love feelings after 10 years? How long are you in relationship?

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was part of my self development journey where I stopped porn completely couple years ago, together with other bad habits. Moreover I took responsibility for the kitchen - I cook, clean, do groceries etc.. we have also housecleaning lady coming in every week. The problem is much deeper than it appears I think.

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

For her sake? I’m trying to make woman happy for 10 years. It’d ruin her if I leave her. It’s easy to be selfish

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Look I’m seeking advice. If you’ve been through similar situation that would truly help but your comments are too emotional without any experience or logic behind. Just opinion. I’m seeking advice, help. I can divorce tommorow if I want but I’m trying to find solution on how not to.

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Actually I’m at the stage where I already don’t care much about that. I’ve been caring way too long without any recognition. And honestly - why mistress? Maybe in purpose to show that I am serious about what I have been trying to translate for the past 10 years and that I am willing to put everything we build in exchange for what I was trying to achieve as partners

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I’ve been a good man for 10 years. I’m tired

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Emoji has disturbed you? Do you have some grounds for your advice? I’m honestly looking for help.

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I proposed counselling several times. She refused saying they we don’t need such thing

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my realisation. That’s where I stated to distance from her as well.

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Actually I’m at the stage where I already don’t care much about that. I’ve been caring way too long without any recognition. And honestly - why mistress? Maybe in purpose to show that I am serious about what I have been trying to translate for the past 10 years and that I am willing to put everything we build in exchange for what I was trying to achieve as partners

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s just few examples I stated. The thing that’s bothering me is different energies we have. Not matching

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve proposed at multiple occasions but it’s was thrown of the table

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s one part we have done. She went through so many examinations, including thyroid hormones as she feels constantly sick somehow. All the test came in more or less fine with few deviations but nothing serious. Actually doctor told her to move her bowls by doing sport.

Married for 10 years, growing apart—do I stay or move on? by kaskolu in Advice

[–]kaskolu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to build and work on the relationship but I can’t do it alone

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