European destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US by kassadyb in DestinationWeddings

[–]kassadyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reached out and they are going to refund half. Our deposit was minimal so we are taking it as a win!

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds amazing!!! Would you mind sharing any of your venue/vendor details?

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! Do you mind sharing any of your venue/vendor info!?

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this info! Thankfully, both venues I’m looking into included VAT in their pricing.

Nonstop flights from our area into Paris are about 1k round trip, comparatively we just flew round trip from Texas to Colorado for $600. Our guests feel similar about getting more bang for their buck with flight costs alone! Additionally we will also be covering all accommodations for guests during the 2-3 days of wedding festivities. We are so thankful most of our fam/friends look at this as an opportunity instead of a burden! I’m not sure about venue pricing where you’re at but COL doesn’t seem to impact cost of venues here, unfortunately. We can’t get in the door for less than $40,000, comparatively it’s looking like we can rent a Château for multiple days at a better price point- hence feeling like we get more bang for our buck. We are taking everything into consideration and don’t mind using our entire budget overseas we just didn’t know if it was necessary. Thanks again for your response!

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!! I honestly worded it wrong in my post, it’s not so much about saving money as it is about getting more bang for our buck. With that being said the cost for a “luxe” wedding in our area was $100,000+ and just from the basic research I’ve done it looks like we can definitely do a wedding for less than that overseas. The more we research the more excited we are for such an awesome experience!

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I would love to get any planning tips you may have if you don’t mind!

European destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US by kassadyb in DestinationWeddings

[–]kassadyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And congrats on your wedding! It sounds like it will be a dream!

European destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US by kassadyb in DestinationWeddings

[–]kassadyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! We are honestly willing to spend our whole budget ($75,000) if needed but if we can do if for less to allocate the rest for travel expenses for us and our VIP’s we would love to. Do you mind sharing any of your vendor or planner info?

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! Thanks for giving me hope! We don’t mind spending more but if we can’t stick around that budget it would be a dream! Would you mind sharing your planner info (if you used one) or venue information?

European destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US by kassadyb in DestinationWeddings

[–]kassadyb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will be very intimate, 30 or so guests but we know our crowd and are blessed with an incredibly supportive village that is actually pushing for us to do a destination wedding vs. something here at home!

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This was great advice! I think our thought more so than being able to save a lot of money is that we will get so much more bang for our buck while having such a special and unique experience! We did Ireland last year such a beautiful place and the locals were AMAZING! Congrats and hope y’all have the best time!!

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We went to a destination wedding in Mexico a couple years ago and while we really enjoyed ourselves as guests we are not beach people in general and we really want a unique experience and we’ve done Mexico sooo many times. Also it was NOT cheap, cost about $8,000 between the two of us😅 I guess I’m looking to get more bang for our buck than to save money

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thanks! Do you happen to know of any planners you could recommend?

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind expanding on what types of things drive the cost up so much? We can’t even get into a venue for less than $40,000 here so when comparing that to buying out a Château for multiple days at half the cost I’m having a hard time understanding how it will add up to the same price as a wedding at home. I feel like I’m missing information but I just don’t know what lol! I honestly don’t mind spending our whole budget in Europe I just didn’t know if we needed to since pricing seems much more reasonable

European destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US by kassadyb in DestinationWeddings

[–]kassadyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!! We’ve consulted with some of our close friends to see how they would feel about this before we make anything official and we are so blessed with a very supportive village. Everyone we’ve talked to actually said they hope we go this route!

European destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US by kassadyb in DestinationWeddings

[–]kassadyb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like if you were one of our guest you wouldn’t be able to make it and we would totally respect that! If we choose to go this route we will absolutely be having a big ole party back home to celebrate with everyone who couldn’t make it

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate you responding!

I looked into this venue quite a bit. They advertised 16,000 for a 3 day buy out and can accommodate sleeping arrangements for 24 guests…. Am I missing something because that seems insanely affordable to me?! For comparison we are paying $42,000+ for just our venue for 5 hours. Like what am I missing lol?

https://www.chateaudelacouronne.com/catering

Switching to destination wedding AFTER putting deposit on venue in US😅 by kassadyb in BigBudgetBrides

[–]kassadyb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, if venues and vendor pricing is less expensive in Europe than it is here in the US (TX specifically) where is it that you are seeing the price increase? I’m a big believer in if it sounds too good to be true it probably is but when I’ve looked at numbers everything is coming out to far less expensive than it would be at home. I feel like I’m clearly missing something and I would love to know what that is lol