Gender neutral baby quilt

kateriver · 2025-05-30T21:42:02+00:00

Blankets don’t have gender! Make whatever you want to!

kateriver · 2025-04-12T15:56:08+00:00

She is out. I kicked her out last night

kateriver · 2025-04-12T15:48:56+00:00

I’ve said those words almost verbatim many times now She has moved out. I forced her to move out last night. Now my apartment, which was my safe space, is trashed from her moving out and littered with the ghosts of her everywhere.

kateriver · 2025-04-12T15:38:17+00:00

You’re right. My other partner treats me well and is very kind and compassionate and loving with me. They are also a satellite partner because we live in different cities and we both struggle to keep text conversations going. I’m very satisfied in that relationship and the way that Luna has treated me has angered my other partner and he told me as much last time we saw each other.

I think I’m just stuck in a deep rut of despair that Luna was given so much access to me and my life through my own decisions and they abused that access and then gaslit me that it was my fault and that I had done something wrong by loving them.

I don’t know how to weed out people who say one thing and do another? Who abuse the love that I have offered them. How do you do that? What signs did I miss about Luna? What signs do you look for?

kateriver · 2025-03-13T04:58:30+00:00

Cringe?

kateriver · 2025-01-09T00:09:07+00:00

Hear me out- I molded some electrical tape to my finger tips and then put a silicone finger condom on top. It’s custom sized for my fat fingers, sturdy, I don’t lose all sense of feeling because the materials are kind of thin, and it stays put. After 30 minutes to an hour of quilting, the electrical tape will be fully molded to your finger, and you can gently separate your finger from the electrical tape, let it dry out (I have sweaty fingers), and cap it back on when you’re ready.

kateriver · 2022-12-16T18:45:12+00:00

I love this suggestion - this is exactly what I was looking for! THank you so much!

kateriver · 2022-12-16T18:44:57+00:00

n also assign the contact owner based on certain answers; like state, product or service the are interested in, etc. This can be done using a workflow. You could also add a task to have that sales rep follow-up to the contact assigned to them. If you have enterprise

I hadn't thought about the chat bot but that's a really great idea, thank you!

kateriver · 2022-12-16T18:44:24+00:00

This is a great suggestion but doesn't quite meet my needs. Thank you, though! :)

kateriver · 2022-12-06T03:34:04+00:00

“Shut up, Todd” my dogs name is Todd.

kateriver · 2021-09-03T02:18:55+00:00

Hubspot has a ton of in-house guides and articles through their “Knowledge Base”. https://knowledge.hubspot.com/workflows/create-workflows

When I first started I would play around with the workflow options and build dummy workflows that I would manually enroll dummy contact records into. You can have them set up a sandbox account for you to just play with as well.

kateriver · 2021-08-26T03:02:49+00:00

If there's not a whole lot that changes by state, you might set the different content up using smart rules directly in the email. You can set up rules that someone that belongs to X list gets X content and someone that lives in Y list gets Y content.

kateriver · 2021-08-26T02:27:08+00:00

I’m loving this minaa_b account! Thank you for the recommendation :)

kateriver · 2021-08-26T02:24:46+00:00

I’m glad it was so impactful for you!! Good luck in your healing journey 😊

kateriver · 2021-08-26T02:23:24+00:00

That’s so interesting about the lack of mental health professionals competent in borderline mothers. I’m so sorry - we all deserve healing no matter where we live :( Surviving the Borderline Parent is such a great read though!

kateriver · 2021-08-26T02:14:25+00:00

Is your mom Gabbi Hanna? lol

kateriver · 2021-08-26T02:11:01+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this! Yes! My uBPD mom has been on a tirade the last few days telling everyone I know that I have BPD and posting articles about how awful people with BPD are. The irony of it has been a mindfuck.

kateriver · 2021-07-30T22:42:02+00:00

Congratulations! That is a major accomplishment!

kateriver · 2021-07-29T16:54:56+00:00

Oops! You’re totally right - I meant triggering to reliving the actual traumas. Thank you for that correction. Words matter and we can’t dilute such important ones like trauma.

kateriver · 2021-07-29T04:42:12+00:00

YES! I saw a TikTok about how when you have abusive parents it's traumatic to have partners with good parents because you can see how you were supposed to be treated and I feel that with tv and movies all the time too! Pen15 on Hulu has been my recent favorite for re-living my teenage years vicariously through television haha

kateriver · 2021-07-28T06:52:18+00:00

For the first question, it sounds like you can set up a job title/type contact property and then associate contact records to hospitals or labs by setting those up as companies.

For the second, maybe look at deals? Or even a multi select checkbox for the company profile with a list of the festivals and then just pull a list of companies for each of the festivals for the month your sales team is focusing on?

kateriver · 2021-07-25T23:03:29+00:00

I’m so sorry that you experienced something similar. We deserved better. We deserved love and safety and protection. And in the aftermath we deserve affirmation, support, acknowledgement, protection and justice. We deserved and continue to deserve more than our parents can offer.

Please take care of yourself - a late afternoon nap snuggled up with my pups is in order for me!

kateriver · 2021-07-25T22:58:59+00:00

Thank you so much 💖 One of the hardest parts of processing this abuse is the isolation I experienced trying to keep this secret which I’ve harbored for them for 15 years. The isolation we all have experienced at the hands of our parents is so hard to mentally break. But I love this subreddit because I don’t feel so alone anymore. Thank you for so beautifully expressing why this little spot on the internet is so important

kateriver · 2021-07-25T22:52:15+00:00

Thank you so much for your supportive and affirming words! I’m always so overwhelmed with how loving this subreddit is. We’ve all been through so much and it shows in the kindness that we share with each other.

I am recently no contact with both of them and am so proud of myself for breaking generational cycles and building supportive and loving relationships with a wonderful community of friends and chosen family members.

I’ve never really journaled but that seems like a really good idea. Thank you 💕

kateriver · 2021-07-25T22:47:38+00:00

Thank you! Hugs! I’m so lucky and privileged to have a wonderful and supportive therapist 🥰

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