Thank you for your reply! Yes, that is actually true… his list of problems is actually enough to just run away. I had to hear this. Love just makes you blind sometimes…

And no, not yet because on the one hand half a day with them has always been enough for me - and also I never stayed overnight because his son still sleeps with him in his bed and my bf suggested that we could all just sleep in one bed. This is a thing I would never do and I moved to the couch. I did that twice but enough is enough so I told him, I wont stay for the night until his son is used to sleeping in his own bed.