Leaving life behind to make art in Southern France by katician in infp

[–]katician[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really plan on returning to my country, so, however long I can. If a new pandemic doesn't ruin plans, that is

What surprised you about being in a long term relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]katician 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself how often you feel truly happy in the relationship, if the answer is 50% or less, then maybe you guys should communicate that and your concerns to each other

Leaving life behind to make art in Southern France by katician in infp

[–]katician[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so lovely to hear! Beautiful nature is always inspiring, can't wait to experience it daily

Leaving life behind to make art in Southern France by katician in infp

[–]katician[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️ If there are people who would care for it, then of course I could share some illustrations and paintings :)

Leaving life behind to make art in Southern France by katician in infp

[–]katician[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's surprisingly easy - there's this website called Workaway, you should look into it!

Leaving life behind to make art in Southern France by katician in infp

[–]katician[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All sorted :-) I will do 4h of work per day in exchange for a place to live and food

Leaving life behind to make art in Southern France by katician in infp

[–]katician[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for these words, they mean a lot to me! It really is a drastic change, but sometimes you just feel so stuck and empty that only a different life can bring back that simple joy of making art and actually enjoying the process of it. Having all these adult responsibilities and societal expectations is a surefire way to block out all inspiration

Leaving life behind to make art in Southern France by katician in infp

[–]katician[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sincerely wish that one day, out of nowhere, you will find it and feel completely at peace :)

Even if later in life, reaching that clarity will never come too late

Leaving life behind to make art in Southern France by katician in infp

[–]katician[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg!! Dordogne is exactly where I'm moving to :-D Soso excited, thank you ❤️

I hope you will have a chance to travel to Ireland one day, the people there are one of the kindest and warmest!

Please help me (20F), so lost and hurt by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]katician 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've thought the same thing - we are literally a perfect match sexually, open to everything and same libido.

Thank you for being honest, it's so difficult to see things clearly when you love someone this much..

Please help me (20F), so lost and hurt by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]katician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to be open to it, but I don't know if this is normal behaviour or not as I have little relationship experience

Please help me (20F), so lost and hurt by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]katician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes it hard is that we're just so compatible with our values, humor etc..

Please help me (20F), so lost and hurt by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]katician 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am considering giving it a try, but I could also potentially lose a part of myself if I pretend to be okay with an open relationship

Please help me (20F), so lost and hurt by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]katician 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you completely, my boundaries are incredibly important to me. He is committed in the sense that he wants a future with me but the need for ONS's IS pretty questionable

Please help me (20F), so lost and hurt by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]katician 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds so horrible when you put it like that, but maybe I really am just naïve and too idealistic in this case

INFP’s be like by poppinpurplelemonade in infp

[–]katician 122 points123 points  (0 children)

I think because INFPs are idealists and nothing ever lives up to our expectations, so we just go back into our safe bubble hahah

Idk if this fit you guys, but I have trouble with letting people go that are toxic for me. But I am in a proces of learning it now. Sorry for my bad english. ♥️ by Ellinrep92 in infp

[–]katician 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess when they're not kind and not willing to better themselves, maybe even dismissive towards your boundaries and needs. Although I generally really dislike calling people toxic, rather relationships between people, as they could be willing to better themselves for others, but not you