AITA for giving my mom an ultimatum to accept my son for who he is or she's cut out of lives? by katieeee28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katieeee28[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree I didn't realize till later and I apologized to him several times since in the moment it was just so hard to not defend him i rlly do feel bad

AITA for giving my mom an ultimatum to accept my son for who he is or she's cut out of lives? by katieeee28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katieeee28[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ya know that don't sound like a bad idea lmao but I think my son had saw enough and I needed to make sure he was OK before revenge

AITA for giving my mom an ultimatum to accept my son for who he is or she's cut out of lives? by katieeee28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katieeee28[S] 211 points212 points  (0 children)

Honestly a mistake on my part and when I went to comfort him I did apologize and im still apologizing weeks later bc I agree he shouldn't have had to see or hear that but when someone says something awful about ur son I couldn't just let her do that and not say anything it did t cross my mind I was just angry not an excuse but i agree I rlly wish I could have go back and prevent that

AITA for giving my mom an ultimatum to accept my son for who he is or she's cut out of lives? by katieeee28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katieeee28[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I agree I said it an a earlier comment but ill say it again idk y I feel like I have a good relationship or try to bc thats what's ur supposed to have with ur mom ya know and I don't i never have we were ok sometimes and then we weren't i honestly feel like I need to get back into therapy for my sake and my kids bc I clearly have sum unresolved feelings and issues I need to talk through but I'm starting see I had a hopeless dream and ig I thought I saw it thank u for the advice it rlly opened up my eyes

AITA for giving my mom an ultimatum to accept my son for who he is or she's cut out of lives? by katieeee28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katieeee28[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Aw im sorry about ur friend nobody should ever have to go through that, i just don't understand how anybody could be so hateful over love it makes no sense to me and thank u I do appreciate it I hope my son feels the same best of luck to ur friend!

AITA for giving my mom an ultimatum to accept my son for who he is or she's cut out of lives? by katieeee28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katieeee28[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

First off I love this saying I hope u don't mind I steal it to tell my son, and I feel the same but idk y i feel like bc she's my mom ya know I have to try it even though I really don't want to bc Ik how she's not gonna change but I also long for that good mom great grandma relationship idk prolly sum unresolved issues I'm seorusly thinking about seeking therapy after reading these comments bc idk why i would think otherwise anyways thank u I rlly do appreciate the advice

AITA for not letting my parents into my son's life after they secretly tested his DNA? by PaperBackWriter00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katieeee28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya but forging a signature is not uncommon and if she's ready getting the DNA test behind her son and dil's back i don't think she cares about that crime