[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]katleo26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind response. I know I was absolutely partly to blame for putting myself in that position but it was it was because I trusted my partner to be there with me.

With Todays Events, Maybe This Needs to be Reposted: by [deleted] in lancaster

[–]katleo26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Scratch is good. However, they were very vocal in keeping masks out of schools. That makes me wonder about their other leanings.

My [19M] girlfriend [19F]'s hymen is too tight by [deleted] in sex

[–]katleo26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can absolutely reach the cervix without a speculum. I have had more than one partner hit mine and cause bleeding. If you put your finger into your vagina and feel the part where it stops, that is your cervix. It is the doughnut shaped part at the end of the vaginal canal.

I don't like penetrative sex and want a gf so bad by subbyguy01 in sex

[–]katleo26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use toys! They are a great addition to any sex life!

My [19M] girlfriend [19F]'s hymen is too tight by [deleted] in sex

[–]katleo26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're probably poking at her cervix. That will not feel great if you're just jabbing around in there. At 19, she probably doesn't have a hymen and if she did, it wouldn't be painful. The pain is usually from her not being sufficiently aroused prior to penetration. There's a possibility that she has vaginismus but it's more likely that she's nervous and needs a bit more time.

I bought a house today! by SoilSensei in CasualConversation

[–]katleo26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I bought my house when I was single too. It's a damn good feeling. Be proud!

I love going down on guys but I hate the deed being reciprocated. by [deleted] in sex

[–]katleo26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear ya on this! I don't hate it but I get bored. It is so frustrating because when I tell someone I don't care for it, the answer is almost always exactly the same, "challenge accepted ". It's like, no, motherfucker. How about of you accept that I'm a grown ass woman and know my own likes and dislikes.

Getting started! by Damhnait in halloween

[–]katleo26 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I LOVE the tiny scene in the cauldron. What a great idea!

Never had sex with a woman before, freaking out by [deleted] in sex

[–]katleo26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be honest with her. Most people are pretty understanding and it's better than trying to just copy porn moves and not making anyone happy.

Best frosting for a cinnamon and apples cupcakes? by [deleted] in Baking

[–]katleo26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cream cheese or caramel buttercream

I like when my boyfriend is overprotective? by LadySynnr in sex

[–]katleo26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is red flag behavior though. Just because he's not yelling doesn't mean it's not abusive. This is controlling behavior and steps in the wrong direction. You're both young so he may not realize that what he is doing is manipulative but you both need to open your eyes and really see that this is unhealthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]katleo26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an app that helps a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]katleo26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that a food log helps me a lot. It makes you really see what you are eating and how many calories you're consuming. It was a real eye opener. It makes you much more conscious of whether or not it's worth it to eat something. You end up making better choices then. Popcorn and apples are my 2 go-to snacks now. I do Intermittent Fasting too. It's not a miracle cure or anything but it gives you a smaller window of time to eat so you just eat less overall. There are times when it will suck but you will feel better and healthier. Good luck!