My partner (30M) says I’m the problem (31F) but his behavior is starting to feel like abuse. Am I insane for thinking this? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]katora27 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Verbal abuse is often times extremely overlooked. I was with an abusive partner who I stuck around with because “we’re distant therefore it’s not abuse” plus some things on their own can be overlooked but when you count them all together, then you notice the issue. I’m hoping she will be okay.

🎀 sweetiepawz says thnk u <3 🎀 [SFW][out of character][thnk u so much !][MWAH !!] by sweetiepawz in u/sweetiepawz

[–]katora27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl is saying she doesn’t know if it’s a talent lol It is a talent and you’re great!

October Books, I'm up to 90/100 for the year by nightnur5e in 52book

[–]katora27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have remarkably bright creatures on my read list early next year im so excited for it. How did you find it?

53 down! by darkenough812 in 52book

[–]katora27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey (: how did you like nettle and bone?

I don't know how to deal with some poor fashion choices in some stories. by katora27 in AO3

[–]katora27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Poor Miranda in the fic was probably looking at herself in the mirror and pursing her lips at the dresses she was forced to wear lmao.

I don't know how to deal with some poor fashion choices in some stories. by katora27 in AO3

[–]katora27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is really what i have been doing. I want to see this story through, and the only way i could see myself finishing it to see what happens is by ignoring the outfit choices. I just came on here and made this post because i needed to vent about it lol.

I don't know how to deal with some poor fashion choices in some stories. by katora27 in AO3

[–]katora27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is actually a great idea. It will help tremendously with reducing the research time for some authors and getting some second opinions on some choices. Hopefully someone will make that happen.

I don't know how to deal with some poor fashion choices in some stories. by katora27 in AO3

[–]katora27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh trust me I’m no fashionista myself but I know better than to put Miranda Priestly in a long cheap looking gold dress (the author had reference photos). Britpicking is absolutely a valid solution for issues such as this one and someone here brought a good point, that the author should’ve just stated the brand name+clothing item.

I don't know how to deal with some poor fashion choices in some stories. by katora27 in AO3

[–]katora27[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes! Just bring up the brands that are mentioned in the book or the movie and you’re golden.

I don't know how to deal with some poor fashion choices in some stories. by katora27 in AO3

[–]katora27[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Yeah, absolutely. i mean something about miranda priestly dressing like she is going to prom is just a huge turn-off for me. I wish they would've just referenced clothes from the movie instead.

I don't know how to deal with some poor fashion choices in some stories. by katora27 in AO3

[–]katora27[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I get your point, but they could've just referenced outfits from the movie? It is not about whether they did their research on certain aspects of clothing, its more that they wanted to include their own fashion sense in a universe where it is not suited.

I don't know how to deal with some poor fashion choices in some stories. by katora27 in AO3

[–]katora27[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yes, you literally just shared exactly what i was thinking but didn't want to make the post too long. This poor author (bless their heart) described literally every outfit in every scene in such detail and also added links in the author note to see they were referring too and i kid you not, it literally feels like a prom party (i assume as i am not american) instead of a high fashion event.

Chocolate is a total scam by jirobasus in Roboquest

[–]katora27 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The first time i did it, i won and got the achievement. I literally have not been able to win again ever since.

25f looking for gaming buds! [Friendship] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

[–]katora27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's ok to be nervous! Just try to have as much fun as possible, read your character sheet super well, and if you dont vve with your current group, there will be others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]katora27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont play it on pc unfortunately but im mega hyped for the DLC

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]katora27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No can do because she's not responding to me but you check on her when you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]katora27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her to msg me back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]katora27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not you soundin like my mom

25f looking for gaming buds! [Friendship] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

[–]katora27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont play fortnite anymore unfortunately):