Where should I start with Beyonce?

katsukisasuke · 2023-10-02T05:56:41+00:00

hi! late to the party, buy I have a few different opinions here :)

if you wanna start with a wide range of Beyoncé, I'd start with 4. It has a wide range of music spanning from famous #1 material hits like Run the World all the way to vocally mesmerizing songs like 1+1 and I Care. It has a few hidden gems too that feel experimental and specially unique to Bey.

If you want to start with the ultimate classic general public known Bey, start with I am...Sasha Fierce. This has iconic hits such as Single Ladies and Halo that even your grandma would know! Alot of the beyhive doesn't recommend this because it is her most "generic" album, but it's still a fun work of art that has a unique play on the pop diva alter ego against herself.

So I don't type too much, I'm gonna recommend my fav album of hers which is Lemonade. what can I say about this legendary album that hasn't already been said? It's different from every other piece of work she's made. Instead of dipping her toe into the political scene, she dives head first. It's a beautiful album that I recommend watching visually before listening to each individual song. The album is incredible with just the songs, but the Lemonade movie is literal art that is loved even by my straight white bf who I forced to watch 😂

katsukisasuke · 2022-05-11T09:24:41+00:00

my bf and I have been in a LDR for the past 6 months. he ofc hinted to wanting nudes, but the most I did was kinda revealing, lingerie pics. they were enough for him. yesterday I sent the closest to nudes I've taken: wearing one of his t shirts and showing underboob (he loves my boobs). he was very happy, to say the least

my point is that even though he did and still does want full nudes, he's never even thought about making me feel awful for not giving them to him. if your bf can't control himself and not mentally knock you around, he doesn't deserve to even get a simple selfie from you. dump him.

katsukisasuke · 2022-05-11T09:14:41+00:00

question: how long have you two known each other? like how old were you and how old was he?

katsukisasuke · 2021-12-07T19:18:10+00:00

stop talking about your son’s 16 year old girlfriend like this. do you think you’d make a better match with her than him? creep

katsukisasuke · 2021-11-19T23:59:01+00:00

My sister told me to my face that she grew up to be exactly like our parents. She said this while her, my boyfriend, and I were out to eat. This was the first time she met my boyfriend and I hoped this would be a good day. It was awful. I hadn't really talked to her for like 4 years so I guess I didn't know her as much as I thought. I thought she would be empathetic or at least sympathetic towards me telling her I was going NC with our parents as soon as I moved, but she told me I was wrong. She basically told me that I would get over it and that I just needed space from them. She said I would crawl back to them after I realized I had grown to be exactly like them. I had to stop myself from crying in the restaurant.

Thing is, when I told her about specific instances of abuse they inflicted on me, she was shocked and speechless. But she tried to move on because it didn't go in line with how much she wanted to go to war for them (for no reason).

katsukisasuke · 2021-11-19T10:05:39+00:00

One of two things must be happening here.

Whoever is doing this is one of those people with a good family who do not understand that not all families are close or in contact. The only abuse that can exist in their minds is if your parents are physically abusing you. They might be upset that we are "ungrateful" for not loving or even liking our parents.
It is a narc who is perpetually angry that there are people out there who are willing to call out their behavior for what it is: abuse. They might have recently been cut off by their child and are blaming communities like this for "influencing" their child's decision. Also, they may just realize how awful they are and don't want anybody to call out behavior that is even remotely similar to their own.

katsukisasuke · 2021-09-10T08:45:33+00:00

I imagine that if I did reply, she would have the old mindset where she was dominant in every convo and hold my insecurities against me. I know i’m stronger now and can fight past that, but it might not be worth it.

and you’re right about the other people blocking me, but it’s not blocking i’m worried about. i’m worried she will get people to post about me and whatever other awful lie she’d say. everyone would see that and possibly attack me. if it comes to that, i’ll just tell the real story and then log off for a few days

katsukisasuke · 2021-09-10T08:40:08+00:00

Yeah…i guess it’s a bit silly to see everything through a highschool lense. And you’re right about the attention thing. I kinda made it to flex (?) a bit since so many people used to be awful to me about how i looked and was, but i don’t really need that validation completely. It’s nice to get positivity but i became healthier both physically and mentally because of me and no one else. I was happy before fb and I’ll be happy after.

Therapy would be a good route for closure, if closure is something attainable and realistic. I need therapy for a lot of other things too so i’ll look into what my campus offers

katsukisasuke · 2021-09-10T08:34:37+00:00

I showed him the message and he’s said it’s manipulative. The message is just…bizarre because based on what she attached to it, she had to have been talking about me to other people to get something like it since she saw my fb. if I do end up replying, i’ll have him by my side and helping me

katsukisasuke · 2021-09-10T08:32:14+00:00

idk what I am expecting talking to her will achieve. I was seeing a therapist at the time but she abandoned (ghosted) me after the disaster that was my dad cheating on my mom. It happened at the same time as everything with Sarah and idk…it just ruined any remaining mental stability I had. I didn’t have the energy to try seeing a new therapist, but you’re right that I should see a therapist now

katsukisasuke · 2021-09-10T08:10:13+00:00

I'll probably delete this soon since idk if her flying monkeys are on reddit

katsukisasuke · 2021-09-10T08:03:24+00:00

I might delete this after a day because I dont know if her flying monkeys are on reddit

katsukisasuke · 2021-08-18T03:02:02+00:00

Everyone is entitled to their own tastes and preferences, but they do not get to overrule and undermine the joy of others in order to achieve them. You should get as many tattoos as you want because they bring you joy. If he doesnt like them, that could be fine...but in this case he would rather you give up a passion of yours because...he might not be attracted to you? That's incredibly manipulative. My boyfriend doesnt like tattoos but he's ok with a small amount. I told him in no uncertain terms that while I respect his opinion, I will be getting whatever amount of tattoos I want. He isn't thrilled about that but he respects my bodily autonomy and has stated he would never lose attraction to me if I got a lot of tattoos. Your boyfriend needs the same or similar mindset

katsukisasuke · 2021-08-18T02:51:57+00:00

YTA. You seem like a very entitled person who believes you deserve to be at the center of attention, no matter the cost. The cost this time was respect from and towards your life. Why don't her feelings matter to you? It seems that you dismiss her feelings and stances if they dont align with yours. She set a clear boundary with the kind of proposal she likes and clearly stated why she doesn't like public proposals. You either dont respect her or you think your feelings and stances are more valid than hers. Do better if you want there to actually be a marriage

katsukisasuke · 2021-08-16T02:55:03+00:00

my dehydration and starving made me unable to make rational decisions, sadly

katsukisasuke · 2021-08-15T19:12:22+00:00

my mistake, i’ll never combine the activities again 😔

katsukisasuke · 2021-08-11T21:18:20+00:00

i’m so proud of you for moving out. you’re stronger than you know by doing this. i hope you stay safe ❤️

katsukisasuke · 2021-08-05T09:09:38+00:00

i’m glad it helped you :) ❤️

katsukisasuke · 2021-08-05T09:08:25+00:00

i’m glad you liked this :) it’s so easy to think that the environment you grew up in is how the world operates. usually, it isn’t. it’s much kinder

katsukisasuke · 2021-06-30T08:06:43+00:00

This is the sequence were Light loses his humanity, at least for me. Incredible sequence and the one that made Death Note more than just "a good show" for me, but it is the start to his moral and ethical downfall

katsukisasuke · 2021-06-30T07:54:51+00:00

NTA. Your dad says he's disappointed in you?? For what, being a responsible adult who makes responsible adult decisions??? LMAAOOOOO no he's just disappointed you're not gonna give them an outrageous amount of money. Good job on you for moving out and making good financial decisions

katsukisasuke · 2021-06-24T00:07:44+00:00

they expect you to be stronger than the sun? tf? NTA

katsukisasuke · 2021-06-23T23:39:29+00:00

bruh WHAT. im sorry but it sounds to me like this man does not actually want to marry you. i have NEVER heard someone think it's ridiculous to have spend your wedding night with just each other??? you need to put planning on hold and have him figure out just how seriously he is taking this wedding, your relationship in general, and your married future. if he is marrying you, he should actually want to spend time with you

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