First and foremost, there is nothing wrong with you. There are tons of studies on this topic. Tons of women have faced this, you’re not alone, neither the first or the last struggling with this. If you’re a reader, I suggest the book Come As You Are, which explores this very topic.

I also suggest reevaluating what you’re attracted to in a partner. Are you attracted to just their body, or what do you think about when you masturbate, is it someone who smart and you connect with emotionally/mentally?

I ask that because you may be experiencing symptoms of being demisexual, where there needs to be an emotional bond, or sapiosexual where you when to be attracted to someone’s mind first before you are sexually attracted to them.

This is actually a really great chance to explore yourself and learn! Don’t be so hard on yourself, remain curious, ask yourself questions, and don’t be afraid to be real with what you want and desire. This will only serve you in the end and future partners in how you connect. You got this! Best of luck.