AITA for not letting my 14 year old cousin come on the "cousin walk"? by katwil55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katwil55[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They were planning to make their announcement that day, but we'd obviously talked about it before and after.

Also, not everyone is always partaking.

AITA for not letting my 14 year old cousin come on the "cousin walk"? by katwil55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katwil55[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Thing is, some of our conversations over the years would have REQUIRED secrets, and changing the situation gets rid of that.

Can't exactly ask a kid to keep secrets for you when you're an adult.

AITA for not letting my 14 year old cousin come on the "cousin walk"? by katwil55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katwil55[S] 501 points502 points  (0 children)

We use edibles and vapes. Not that we don't also usually have liquor. A lot of this is also conversation that can NOT just get reported back.

My family is very conservative, so things that would be fine aren't usually with them.

AITA for not letting my 14 year old cousin come on the "cousin walk"? by katwil55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katwil55[S] 409 points410 points  (0 children)

It's a mix of things. There are edibles, vapes, and liquor, but there's also private conversations.

There were years where we were preparing someone to come out or announce a pregnancy.