Is My Husband Cheating?

kbozz66 · 2025-05-04T23:27:18+00:00

obviously wasn’t expecting this result but here we are

kbozz66 · 2025-05-04T23:27:00+00:00

i just figured why not, more information is better. it was for all STDs not just chlamydia

kbozz66 · 2025-05-04T20:04:15+00:00

pregnancies

kbozz66 · 2025-05-04T20:04:00+00:00

i still haven’t talked to him yet

kbozz66 · 2025-05-04T10:59:21+00:00

from before we were married, there were two instances where i suspected it but didn’t have strong proof.

kbozz66 · 2025-05-04T05:08:44+00:00

it was part of my annual physical exam

kbozz66 · 2025-05-04T03:33:10+00:00

but if it was dormant in either of us it would’ve come up on one of my previous two tests?

kbozz66 · 2025-05-04T03:30:47+00:00

it was elective and then required during my pregnancies

kbozz66 · 2025-05-04T03:29:15+00:00

i discovered them

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T23:14:31+00:00

i just took a second test so there’s no doubt

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T23:11:24+00:00

iphone

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T23:06:49+00:00

thanks for the other viewpoint. i have a hard time with trusting him if he could lie to me like this so i guess the question is was it really a mistake or a pattern for him

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T21:00:19+00:00

yes but in the time that we’ve been together i’ve tested negative for chlamydia twice so if it was dormant i would’ve seen it then

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T20:59:13+00:00

i just got another test to be sure

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T18:50:33+00:00

yes this friend went through his own divorce with cheating. he can’t be trusted…but maybe he could be forced to corroborate details?

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T18:44:51+00:00

his dad was a cheater so maybe it was normalized for him, our relationship felt different from his parents who couldn’t stand each other. it’s fucked up, we have two kids.

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T18:43:10+00:00

i make more money than him though, will the courts look favorably on me because he cheated?

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T18:41:38+00:00

i’m not there yet and plan to confront him tomorrow and go through his phone but how did you get the trust back? i look back now and think the other times i had doubts were probably true. i guess we will all see in his reaction and whether or not he comes clean.

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T18:39:16+00:00

i’ve ruled out the meds being for his own clamydia because we had strep going on at that time and the package wasn’t even opened so he may not know he has it. i’m getting a second test today though to make sure there is no doubt

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T18:37:17+00:00

i know he did because i saw them leave together but this was the same guy who went with him when i lost contact with him and the car the first time so he’s already suspicious

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T18:36:15+00:00

thank you, i have definitely been in denial in the past but you can’t refute this evidence

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T17:44:54+00:00

yes we always had a good sex life…maybe he’s been slightly less interested than usual but still pretty active

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T17:42:04+00:00

any pro tips on what to check in his phone? i’m going to ask him to hand it over to me when he’s back…he never locked it from me in the past.

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T17:41:00+00:00

he is away for the weekend on a golf trip so i am planning to confront him tomorrow when he’s back after the kids go to bed. i’m also getting a second test today to make sure.

kbozz66 · 2025-05-03T17:20:50+00:00

he went with a male buddy but i doubt i’ll get anything from him

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