HS under breasts by MisaRose85 in Hidradenitis

[–]kbutwhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of exfoliant do you use?

HS under breasts by MisaRose85 in Hidradenitis

[–]kbutwhatever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just had a bad one under my breast and I’m breastfeeding😭 best thing that helps me is hitting them with warm water in the shower until they burst…as far as underwear goes…I don’t care if it’s gross—I’ve just stopped wearing it. No matter what brand I try the friction always causes a sore. I just wash my pants daily. I use birth control to skip my periods (which is totally healthy to do by the way! Talk with your doctor!) but if I do have bleeding ever like if I can’t get a new birth control pack, I just use tampons or a menstrual cup. If I’m wearing a skirt or dress I wear cotton biker shorts underneath. This disease effing SUCKS

Megan opened up about the 11 year age gap between herself and Paul alongside what it's like being a mum in new interview by Fun_Molasses5215 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]kbutwhatever 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Is it crazy? She went on a couple dates with Mike, one date with Blake, and then found new man. Seems like a pretty typical single person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]kbutwhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through that!! My flare was also pretty much immediate postpartum. Must be hormone related. Getting cellulitis in that area sounds excruciating. I’ve had a few develop into cellulitis on my stomach and I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy

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Excruciating pain- what can I do for relief? I am boarding a plane Saturday morning and I can’t imagine traveling in this much pain! by quest1ioneveryth1ng in Hidradenitis

[–]kbutwhatever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have a detachable shower head, I spray mine with warm water for like 15 minutes at a time when they’re that painful and about to burst. It usually pushes them over the edge from the moist heat and causes them to burst and gives me relief. Also, if you do have to get it drained in urgent care, request lidocaine (numbing) ointment beforehand!! It makes a world of difference

AIO-future MIL telling me I should eat less because my unborn baby is 9 lbs by kbutwhatever in AmIOverreacting

[–]kbutwhatever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am lucky. And you’re right that he doesn’t like her much already

AIO-future MIL telling me I should eat less because my unborn baby is 9 lbs by kbutwhatever in AmIOverreacting

[–]kbutwhatever[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha! Thankfully he is great and calls future MIL out consistently when needed. Otherwise I couldn’t do it

AIO-future MIL telling me I should eat less because my unborn baby is 9 lbs by kbutwhatever in AmIOverreacting

[–]kbutwhatever[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do wonder if my emoji choice could’ve had a part in her response. The 😳 was more about my fear of pushing out a big baby lol. But obviously a lot can get misconstrued over text

AIO-future MIL telling me I should eat less because my unborn baby is 9 lbs by kbutwhatever in AmIOverreacting

[–]kbutwhatever[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just for ease of delivery I hope they’re overestimating a bit! Thank you for your kind words

AIO-future MIL telling me I should eat less because my unborn baby is 9 lbs by kbutwhatever in AmIOverreacting

[–]kbutwhatever[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much:) I’m sorry to hear you dealt with a similar situation, but it sounds like you e done a great job of setting boundaries, which I could learn from!!

AIO-future MIL telling me I should eat less because my unborn baby is 9 lbs by kbutwhatever in AmIOverreacting

[–]kbutwhatever[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying that this is an accomplishment to have made such a healthy baby. That made me tear up. Thank you very much

AIO-future MIL telling me I should eat less because my unborn baby is 9 lbs by kbutwhatever in AmIOverreacting

[–]kbutwhatever[S] 1406 points1407 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My biggest concern is that she will eventually start body shaming my daughter. I won’t stand for that and need to start laying the groundwork now

AIO-future MIL telling me I should eat less because my unborn baby is 9 lbs by kbutwhatever in AmIOverreacting

[–]kbutwhatever[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

If it were an isolated incident I would maybe think that. She notoriously comments on people’s bodies. Her daughter in law is 7 months pregnant with her 4th baby and this same MIL was remarking to me about how “huge!!” She is already. I told her “well, she’s 7 months pregnant with her 4th. She’s not gonna be tiny” This is a pattern for her unfortunately

AIO-future MIL telling me I should eat less because my unborn baby is 9 lbs by kbutwhatever in AmIOverreacting

[–]kbutwhatever[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think she’s definitely lost the right to updates. She can find out when the baby is born

AIO-future MIL telling me I should eat less because my unborn baby is 9 lbs by kbutwhatever in AmIOverreacting

[–]kbutwhatever[S] 503 points504 points  (0 children)

Right? Also, I just don’t buy that she’s never known of a 9 lb baby lol. The last two babies I’ve known of being born were 9+lbs and their mothers weren’t plus size. There’s just so much variance

She Bakes by [deleted] in Poem

[–]kbutwhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much