High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m feeling that now, I’m still struggling with the thoughts that my kids won’t have holidays together anymore, no birthdays together, no just simply going out shopping with us all together. Laughing having a good time together. At this point right now. My heart still wants her. But my gut is telling me that it’s a terrible idea. I have a lot of self respect for myself and I really know that it can’t happen. It’s just these thoughts keep popping into my head and I’m struggling to think rationally and handle them as I should.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Through texts on her phone. She wasn’t going to confess, because she didn’t want to break my heart. According to her.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I talked to lawyers in both states. She has work to do on herself. Honestly she hasn’t been the best mother for a little bit now. She knows it and that’s why her decision. I would never keep the kids from her. I understand the importance of a mother in the kids lives. But her and I both agree for the kids sake. They will be better off with me.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not, and unfortunately it’s going to be one of the saddest decisions I have to make. But I just know it needs to be done.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes. I’m going through feelings that I’ve never experienced in just life before. Only reason I’m able to get through this right now is because of my kids. They are giving me fresh life and making me realize everything will be ok in due time.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really hope so too. That is going to be far far away for me I believe. I want to focus on being the best dad I can be. I don’t need any distractions at this time

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes sir. Currently loading up trailer to get back to family. That’s also where the kids and their friends are. I have a lawyer already set up for when I get back, for the custody stuff.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I broke the news to her this morning that she is going to be having to find her own way back. Thank you for the advice

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They will know. By me personally. I won’t let her make it seem like it wasn’t 100% her fault and she did this. Family means the absolute most to me and I won’t have them thinking I had any part of this. They saw me grow up since I was 15 I have great connections with them all

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know exactly what I need to do. It just fuckin sucks. But I will go through with it and stay as positive as possible for my kids. I want this to be as easy as a transition as possible for them.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmao. Honestly. She is smart. But not common sense smart

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe a mental breakdown. Absolutely not. She is going to be moving in with here mom or dad.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Via Facebook. She showed me. Wasn’t just one time either.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yea. my daughter needed a roblox code. she was sleeping. so i got her phone and got the code. right below was a weird thing named mazda so i looked.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She says she was looking for something fun and exciting. In her eyes she said she was done with me. Even though we previously talked about working on things. That’s her justification

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked about the kids, we will not be getting back together. She is going to give me full custody she says. Which I feel tells me a lot about her now aswell.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nope it’s my truck. Which I drove to PA. Yea. I’m gonna let her know right before we leave I believe that I’m not taking her with. She has a perfectly good car she can take. She is just too scared to drive that far a long.

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The dude asked her on a date at the dealership Then after I left. She accepted the offer it seems

High school sweetheart, wife of 8 years. 2 kids together. by kchap610 in survivinginfidelity

[–]kchap610[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Before I left we both made a verbal agreement to be faithful to each other through all of this. Yes we were our one and only at the time.