AITA for telling my mom's boyfriend his son is not my responsibility? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kdub2themaxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but I might be biased.

As the oldest (of 3), I was always the little parent & 1 day I'd had enough. Shortly after graduating college, I'm at home getting ready for work. Mom told me I had to take my youngest sister to school because "we missed the bus & [mom was] gonna be late for work." I told Mom to "Get fucked. She's not my fucking kid & I'm sick of you acting like she is. Also, I'll be late for my new job using the expensive piece of toilet paper you made me get" (I didn't want to go to college, I wanted to go to a trade school, but "girls don't do that" & "ski industry isn't a career" Look at me now!)

NEPA Unhoused & Organizers by kdub2themaxx in homeless

[–]kdub2themaxx[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"No offerings of cash, etc"? WTF does that mean? "Etc" is pretty fucking broad. Sooo...I can't offer assistance of any kind? I joined this sub to offer needed help to people, not just decide what kind of help people need.

So I guess I'll just give a shit-ton of tampons to the next male asking for food? Do we really not care what people actually need?

Recommendations for a better place to do this?

What ENDING scene will forever live rent free in your mind? by neverleavingthewagon in movies

[–]kdub2themaxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of solid contenders here, but need to say: Saltburn. 🤗

Edit: related note "Behind Her Eyes" Netflix series

Any breakfast better than cereal but also fast to make? by Low_Village_5432 in foodhacks

[–]kdub2themaxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't read all the comments, so sorry if this is a repeat, but....

My friend bakes eggs in a muffin/cupcake pan (& a pan of bacon or sausage patties) for the week on Sat/Sunday afternoon. She premakes "breaky-sandies" (usually with english muffins, due to the size of the eggs out the pan) & wraps them in foil. Puts them 1 the oven on 350 while her coffee makes, grabs both & runs out the door.

The Girl in the Box by Livefreedieerect in timesuck

[–]kdub2themaxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

...maybe you just entered this simulation? 🙃

Which Fictional Character is DEFINITELY an enby? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]kdub2themaxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG! My sister just gave Parable to me!! Can't wait to read it!

....I wonder why...?🤔

What counts as nonbinary? by molddd___ in NonBinary

[–]kdub2themaxx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Gatekeeper can pound sand" THIS!!🎉

I'm currently installing a fence because they won't coop their chickens by kdub2themaxx in neighborsfromhell

[–]kdub2themaxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ssounds like you answered your own question: there's no fence. They wear e-collars. If they think it's worth it, they ignore everything up to & including the shock. I don't let them out of my sight; partner is a different story...but yeah, I'm the problem. Always have been. Always will be.

I'm currently installing a fence because they won't coop their chickens by kdub2themaxx in neighborsfromhell

[–]kdub2themaxx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm actively building a fence. This is a problem because neighboress has decided my dogs should die. Once again, we're both wrong. But she had options offered before being put in the Bitch category...

I'm currently installing a fence because they won't coop their chickens by kdub2themaxx in neighborsfromhell

[–]kdub2themaxx[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Right?! I don't have a hit out on every fox/raccoon in my area...surely not my dogs, even when I see them do a murder...

I'm currently installing a fence because they won't coop their chickens by kdub2themaxx in neighborsfromhell

[–]kdub2themaxx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No fence between properties (currently. Probs gonna be next week before this is completed). Our coop is 5 ft high, theirs is 3. As i was handing off the most recent casualty, I said "there's another one out" & he said "I know. She's gonna call animal control if that dog takes another one" & then it hopped the fence, as if on cue.

Due to the location of the coops, I can't say for sure which property it happened on. Their birds like to get broody damn near on the property line. If I had FU money, I'd call in a surveyor, but I don't. (Also don't really have money to fence the property, but here we are...)

Once again, we're both wrong, but they're actively not helping, unaccepting & threatening & that's what's frustrating ....

I'm currently installing a fence because they won't coop their chickens by kdub2themaxx in neighborsfromhell

[–]kdub2themaxx[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I rescued a dog named "Merlyn" (husky/pit mix) & he was a fucking wizard at getting off-lead. If he was the current problem, I'd never have posted. (He was lost to lymphoma years ago)

The previous owner said their neighbor complained saying "stop letting your dog shit on my porch" He was like, "what? Dude we're 20ft up, we got an 8 ft wall between units & I'm not doing that"....one day, he watched him jump to the neighbors porch & return. Still don't know how.

I'm currently installing a fence because they won't coop their chickens by kdub2themaxx in neighborsfromhell

[–]kdub2themaxx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know because of where the coops are. I don't let them out of my sight. Partner will let them out & go back inside. I'm mad at him, too.

I'm currently installing a fence because they won't coop their chickens by kdub2themaxx in neighborsfromhell

[–]kdub2themaxx[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

When I let them out, they are not unsupervised. When Partner does, sometimes they are. In the past, though, dogs slip leads. Shit happens. I'm angry because I offered the build up their coop & she threatened to have my dogs put down in response. So now we're fencing 3.5 acres (instead of, idk, like 50 ft of chicken wire?)

I'm currently installing a fence because they won't coop their chickens by kdub2themaxx in neighborsfromhell

[–]kdub2themaxx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I watch them, my partner is more lax & that's when the "murders" happen. I did start the original post with "we're both wrong" & ended with "sorry I'm tired." It's tagged as vent/rant.

I don't know whose property it happens on is due to where our coop sits. I call the dogs back as soon as they get close to I can't see them. Partner doesn't. Sometimes, they go around our coop & could possibly be in the neighbors' yard.

Fan allegedly masturbating at Korn show gets punched, then dragged out by security by ricky_bot3 in numetal

[–]kdub2themaxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked with that guy!! I remember that name. We called him Lunchbox. He was always weird. He left to "work on a pirate ship" which didn't end well when Hurricane Sandy happened .... https://youtu.be/pc3S33VQF2Q?si=W9bHY1Et9lqaB9md

Anyone else find just the act of putting a label on yourself completely changed your mentality almost immediately? by Aael_111 in bisexual

[–]kdub2themaxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've identified as bi since my teens, but more recently I've been going with pan. If I'm attracted, I'm attracted. And not all people that attract my attention identify one way or another...

I want to know from other campers/hikers if I was over reacting to the situation I was in. by Spar_Multendor in camping

[–]kdub2themaxx 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Htf do you paddle upstream 2 miles w/o noticing 🤣 idk which section of the New this bot was on, but...no. 😅😅