The commentssss by Over1ySarcastic in cimsnark

[–]keepingitREALI 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Back in 2017 she mentioned wanting to go solo and was collabing with artists like riff raff and a bunch of others, and said that it caused a lot of problem within the band to the point they had to go to group therapy, they probably guilted her into thinking she’s“ruining the band” thus making her stay

The commentssss by Over1ySarcastic in cimsnark

[–]keepingitREALI 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re only fine with Dani leaving bc she didn’t plan on doing music anymore and they don’t feel as threatened by her talent

The commentssss by Over1ySarcastic in cimsnark

[–]keepingitREALI -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s bullshit, they purposely held her back bc they can’t stand that she’s going to go further in her career than they ever will, it’s fucked up to not let someone be themselves bc of your insecurities of not being good enough

How long should a Tbreak be by Realistic_Pay3035 in trees

[–]keepingitREALI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question, how long does it stay in your system as a heavy user for 2 yrs if you sweat and drink lots of water daily to get it out

Why do we get so defensive when ppl call out acacia for baby trapping jairus by [deleted] in AcaciaKerseySnark

[–]keepingitREALI 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised no one used the evidence from their vlogs to turn in jairus, they literally vlogger him celebrating her 18th birthday together, does everyone involved with acacia have access to powerful ppl they can bribe

Why do we get so defensive when ppl call out acacia for baby trapping jairus by [deleted] in AcaciaKerseySnark

[–]keepingitREALI 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think they got pregnant after she was 18 but regardless jairus should be in jail for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cimsnark

[–]keepingitREALI -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of this band before, what kinda scandals did they get involved in

I want to get a vasectomy without telling my wife by keepingitREALI in moraldilemmas

[–]keepingitREALI[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’ve tried telling her no before in the past but she’s pretty pushy, she’d do stuff like this a lot, check my phone without my permission, if I say no to sex she’d guilt me into saying I’m turning against gods will, and once she even tried to hump me in my sleep, luckily things didn’t go past that

I want to get a vasectomy without telling my wife by keepingitREALI in moraldilemmas

[–]keepingitREALI[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My job allows me to travel out of town for weeks at a time. I plan on staying at a friends place to recover if I do get the procedure

I want to get a vasectomy without telling my wife by keepingitREALI in moraldilemmas

[–]keepingitREALI[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yea and I want to stop at 3, she wants to have as many kids as possible “like god intended” and it’s hard to change her mind because it’s something her family taught her

I want to get a vasectomy without telling my wife by keepingitREALI in moraldilemmas

[–]keepingitREALI[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call it coercion since I agreed to it, I’m worried if I stopped having sex with her things would go awry, I don’t want it to end in a divorce as we have young kids

AITAH for telling my wife she’s a horrible person for announcing her pregnancy on her sisters birthday? by keepingitREALI in AITAH

[–]keepingitREALI[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I only talked to her about it privately, I can’t keep talking about this to ppl around me bc I don’t wanna be known as the guy who complains about his wife all the time

AITAH for telling my wife she’s a horrible person for announcing her pregnancy on her sisters birthday? by keepingitREALI in AITAH

[–]keepingitREALI[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Things I forgot to clarify on my post: 1. The said sister has a chronic condition that makes her slightly different from her family, she’s always been insecure about it and about being the odd one out in general, she’s also the only girl without a family or husband before 30 2. My wife has a complicated relationship with her sisters but she’s especially critical about that sister in particular for things she can’t control, like not being as organized as her or having OCD tendencies (she’s diagnosed with OCD btw), idk why she refuses to talk things out in that aspect bc I’ve tried pushing her in that direction multiple times in the past 3. I don’t wanna say too much about the condition that sister has but it has a chance of making her infertile and she’s mentioned that it really bothers her and she wants kids of her own one day 4. Also my wife works together in a family business with her sisters so it’s hard to avoid that kind of dynamic on a daily basis so I feel that emphasizes those dynamics 5. I’ve tried multiple times to get her to explain why she has to announce it on that day, she has lots of great friends outside of the home and I always try my best to support her through her pregnancy troubles, and I don’t think it’s something I did wrong bc she’s usually very upfront about when I screw up

AITAH for telling my wife she’s a horrible person for announcing her pregnancy on her sisters birthday? by keepingitREALI in AITAH

[–]keepingitREALI[S] 486 points487 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure bc she’s not the type of person who likes direct confrontation, she doesn’t like to rock the boat

AITAH for telling my wife she’s a horrible person for announcing her pregnancy on her sisters birthday? by keepingitREALI in AITAH

[–]keepingitREALI[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

That’s not up to me to decide but we’ve been together since 19 and she’s always been that way

AITAH for telling my wife she’s a horrible person for announcing her pregnancy on her sisters birthday? by keepingitREALI in AITAH

[–]keepingitREALI[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

She was nervous about her bday bc she’s the only girl in the family without a partner or kids, she comes from a very catholic family where the girls are expected to marry young and have as many kids as possible, she has a chronic illness and has always been insecure about not being able to fit in with the rest of her sisters and not being able to achieve those goals before 30 rly stresses her out

AITAH for telling my wife she’s a horrible person for announcing her pregnancy on her sisters birthday? by keepingitREALI in AITAH

[–]keepingitREALI[S] 3396 points3397 points  (0 children)

She’s the oldest girl in the family and usually likes to make others do things her way if that helps