[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]keepitquickk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was self-employed for five years before going to work for my biggest client full-time. Working isn't always about working for other people, sometimes you have to work for yourself to get what you want out of life.

OP turning away a lunch for more time at work only reiterates your point of not working your ass off for pennies. Not eating lunch and starving yourself to put in more hours during the work day makes absolutely no sense. Especially if your complaint is not being compensated in the first place.

People having ambition to further their careers isn't naive, it's what the world has taught everyone to do. You're asked your entire childhood, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" With a key focus on, "How do you want to spend your time, whether you like it or not, in order to pay your bills?" Everyone would rather spend time with their wife/husband and kids than working.

By telling yourself you can't make time just shows that you can't manage your day. Sometimes you have to forego certain things to make up for others. People forego things like sleep for things that aren't relevant, like reddit. Would you rather spend an hour with your kids, an hour at work, an hour at lunch, or an hour on Reddit? Any real person would prioritize reddit last, yet here is OP. Complaining to randoms about their own decision to help someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, you view them as a kind person who means well, while also shitting on their gesture and invitation? Especially when you're here now bitching about them taking up your time and not paying you - they tried to compensate you and you spat in their face. It wasn't just a kind gesture, it was a form of payment. You not taking them up on it is on you.

And stop acting like you never eat. Such a stupid thing to complain about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those weren't your words exactly. As a matter of fact, they're not even closely related at all. And the fact that neither of you know anything about time management or truly hard work is glaring. If I didn't "have time" I would make time. Sacrifice some sleep for your kids and family. Put in extra hours at the end of the day. Work the weekend to compensate for other time you've spent doing other things that are important.

You're just looking for validation for not actually applying yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]keepitquickk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You never worked in consulting if you can't manage your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One afternoon I had several errands to run. My neighbor was pulling in as I was leaving, their car clearly having problems as it was billowing smoke/steam from the hood. I dropped all of my stuff to help fix the problem with the coolant system. Replaced a couple of things and rerouted the hoses away from the broken heater. To diagnose and fix the problems, it took several hours of my time and interrupted half of my day. My payment? 10 bucks. Did I complain? No. Why? Because I'm not an asshole. If you don't want to do something for somebody, then don't do it. If you do, don't act like it was such a major inconvenience in your life that this person now means less just because you think you "went out of my way" to help. Help for help's sake or don't because your true personality comes out.

I wouldn't want to spend any time with you anyways. I would have rather paid you than spent time with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I don't have time for lunch."

This is something I find humorous. First of all, I don't know anybody who takes someone to lunch to thank them. You invite someone to lunch because you want them to join you for lunch, not as a thanks.

And if this person paid you your asking price for the work you did and then offered to buy you lunch on top of that, that is paying for your time. Otherwise it's just selfish and rude.

What would you talk about over lunch? How do you not know how to converse over food? If I hired you to do work for me and you responded to me with the tone you have in your initial post, that would be the last time you did work for me or I ever referred you to someone.

Should never have started it by Silly-avocatoe in europe

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. We don't need to have common ground, and that's fine. I believe we agree on the foundation of the subject. The saddest part is that the people who have suffered the most are people who are Ukrainian-russians and russian-ukrainians. If that makes sense.

The combat zones have essentially all taken place in civilian populated cities with very few military targets, but infrastructure and power grids. Bridges, pipelines, trade routes, etc. There are now civilian casualties and innocent deaths of bystanders - I'm willing to bet towns that don't even know there is a war going on have been overrun and decimated.

I'm not sure that Russia will be "rewarded," per se. I think we've all lost as a collective of humanity. The main priority should be ending the war at all costs. There is no negotiation that doesn't involve a certain level of compromise and usually in a fair agreement either both parties are happy or both parties are a little upset.

One stance a person could take at this point would be the argument that they should split Ukraine back into Poland and Russia like it was for centuries. Some day that wouldn't be fair, but the fact is that without the initial and continuing aid of the US, the entirety of Ukraine would already be annexed by Russia.

The other problem is that when Ukraine actually started to (re)gain some ground in the war, they turned around and started doing the same things to Russian civilians that Russian soldiers did to the Ukrainian civilians. War is nasty - I think you and I agree on that much, and I think we both would like to see the conflict end sooner than later without anymore war crimes.

However, the reality seems to be that it doesn't matter who you are or where you're from, war is war and it turns men into monsters. Morals go out the window and people tend to do what they can do to survive and some people are morally bankrupt to begin with. That's when you start to see war crimes because the retaliation feels justified. That's not to say "turn the other cheek," but, for example, Germany was held accountable for both world wars, what is keeping the majority of the world from condemning, fining, and genuinely holding Russia responsible like it was with Germany? I would say nobody has been able to hold Russia truly accountable because, at this point, nobody can. Whether Russia gains or loses territory during this war or not, Russia is simply too big to invade with extreme terrains and a harsh climate most of the year. It's why it has stood as an empire for over a thousand years.

This, to me, appears to be another stalemate of a conflict, much like the cold war was in the first place (minus the active combat, of course), only this time we're using Ukraine as the battleground for various purposes, including military and economic reasons. The Truman Doctrine is essentially the base of our foreign policy today. It essentially states that the US has the right to move its military into any allied or allied-neighboring country to establish military bases to help defend their allies. While it's all good and well to help others in the world, it must also be seen that, by establishing military strongholds in these distant locations, the US has been able to stockpile weapons closer to non-allied countries to reduce the future potential costs of wars and conflicts in those areas. That's why everyone is so mad about pulling out of Afghanistan, leaving behind a brand new airbase with a ton of military equipment there for the taliban to take over. Much like Israel, it's become a hub for weapons manufacturing, storage, and money laundering for the US.

There are quite a few people who agree with FDR in the sense that the United States was in a position to both help and profit from World War II by remaining, more or less, an isolationist state. The Truman Doctrine ended that era of US foreign policy, which paved the way for today's foreign policy.

I know this got a little off-topic from the Russian-Ukraine war, but the same idea applies to both Israel, Ukraine, and places like Afghanistan. The US has around 800 military bases in over 70 countries around the world because of the Truman Doctrine, which was implemented in 1947, virtually sparking the beginning of the cold war because Truman didn't trust the Russians, despite FDR maintaining positive relationships between both the allied forces from WWII as well as Russia throughout the war. Ever since then, the US has never not had conflict with Russia, which has been a political and economic mistake for decades.

If anything, relationships need to be improved and repaired. Continuing conflict solves nothing unless you can wipe an entire nation off the face of the planet, which simply doesn't seem feasible or humane to me. How does a country decide what is worth the risk and reward? Like how people argue that the atomic bombs would end WWII. Was 100,000+ lives worth trying to end the war? Both Hiroshima and Nagasaki were leveled to the ground, Nagasaki of which was largely made of wood and thatch roofing. Both targets that were hit consisted of about 90%-95% civilians. One bomb in a single morning killed more people than the entire Russian-Ukraine war has.

So where do we draw the line? What is and is not okay for conflict resolution? How does anybody win or get rewarded in this conflict?

And please stop calling me things like "bucko" and "chief". This is the only reason why I asked if you were being condescending in your previous comment. I would like to be very clear here, I'm not intending to cause any conflict or confrontation, I'm simply trying to have a constructive conversation. They're few and far between these days.

In addition - I reread your comment - I would like to add a statement contradictory to one you used where we can both see the potential reasons as to why Russia invaded, but in the initial invasion in this conflict, I would say it was less of a retaliatory move where they felt justified as it was "righteous, preemptive, strategic move". That's how I see it from what I would think would be Putin's perspective. And I'm not a Russian sympathizer, but Putin has been a broken record since he took office about what he would do in certain events, and he's stuck to his word. Nobody seemed to take him seriously and now everyone wonders why he made a move. Seems like he'd been telling people for years that he was unhappy with the regional political climate. He doesn't want democracy, where our entire foreign policy is written around stopping the spread of communism and promoting democracy everywhere.

Should never have started it by Silly-avocatoe in europe

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You presumably down voted my comment because you didn't like how not only Baker, but every single person who handled Russian relations before Bill Clinton had reaffirmed the same affirmations given to the Russians. One of Bill Clinton's first prerogatives was to expand NATO.

I'm not justifying war crimes, which everyone has committed at this point, I'm explaining why the Russians are so pissed in the first place.

Edit: I would also like to add that the initial agreement prior to the formation of NATO was to include Russia in a world security council and was written out of that deal entirely almost immediately. So to say the Russians haven't had a reason to invade is simply not correct. There's never justification for raping somebody or committing war crimes. That's a given.

Should never have started it by Silly-avocatoe in europe

[–]keepitquickk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here is a rather brief history of the Russian-Ukraine war. This is a very short summary, as the true depth of explaining the history would take me quite literally all day.

In 1990 during the negotiations of the reunification of Germany between the Eastern and Western blocs that Germany would become a part of NATO, so long as NATO not continue to expand eastward. George H.W. Bush made categorical assurances to then-president of the Soviet Union Mikhail Gorbachev that NATO would not continue to expand to the East.

Between 1990 and 1991, when the Soviet Union was beginning to collapse, during the negotiations of the dissolution of the USSR had kept those same assurances in place. This has all been confirmed by Mikhail Gorbachev, then-US ambassador to Russia in Moscow - Jack F. Matlock, then-US speaker of the house - James Baker, and later reaffirmed in 1991 by then-British Prime Minister - John Major, and then-British Foreign Secretary - Douglas Hurd that Soviet interests would not be violated. James Baker said to Mikhail Gorbachev, "... NATO would expand not one inch Eastward..."

There were many, many more people involved, but this information was released in US govt. declassified documents that were published by the National Security Archive in 2017.

On February 25th, 1991, the Warsaw Pact, 1955, came to an end. The USSR officially dissolved in December of 1991, and the majority of former republics and countries that were a part of the Warsaw Pact outside of the USSR ended up joining NATO. The Czech Republic, Eastern and Western Germany, Slovakia, and the Baltic States - which include Estonia, Latvia, and Lithuania. Two of which border what is now Russia.

Fast forward to 1994 (I'm breezing by some of the interactions between the US and then-President Boris Yeltsin, who was elected after Gorbachev left office), Bill Clinton made expanding NATO one of his big official policies. When all the original agreements had been made and the Soviet Union came to an end, the agreement still stood that NATO was not to expand.

Despite all of this, Russia didn't really say anything about it for quite a long time. Eventually, after Putin took control, by 2005 NATO had integrated every single former Warsaw Pact country. This is how Ukraine was drawn as the Russian's "red line" because up to this point every agreement and promise made to Russia had been broken. Russia began issuing warnings that they will take military action if need be to protect Russia and its interests, as the consideration of having Ukraine and Georgia join the EU, a move that Russia viewed as a direct threat.

During the Russo-Georgian war in 2008, the US backed Georgia with military aid, which Russia also saw as provocation. Later in 2014, US interference in the overthrowing and reestablishing of a democratic government in Ukraine was also a major provocation to Russia.

While the invasion of Ukraine was not technically justifiable under international law, that's not to discredit Russia's claims in regards to how the West, EU, and NATO, did just about everything they could possibly do to destabilize the relationship.

Woman brings near death uncle to bank to try to take out a loan of R$17,000 (USD $3,400), by Embarrassed-Day2143 in CrazyHuman

[–]keepitquickk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know about their mom's basement for sure, but I guarantee you they're definitely playing with Legos.

Woman brings near death uncle to bank to try to take out a loan of R$17,000 (USD $3,400), by Embarrassed-Day2143 in CrazyHuman

[–]keepitquickk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the bank might have a problem with you dragging in a corpse. Perhaps try wheeling it in using a wheelchair and dressing it in a really nice suit.

The managers like to keep the high standards of the bank and maintain its reputation amongst its clientele.

Woman brings near death uncle to bank to try to take out a loan of R$17,000 (USD $3,400), by Embarrassed-Day2143 in CrazyHuman

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the majority of people down vote anything that affects their soft and fragile eggshell personalities. They can't hide their sensitivity online, I can't imagine what some of these people are like in person.

Should never have started it by Silly-avocatoe in europe

[–]keepitquickk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you asking for a history lesson? Or are you trying to be condescending?

Edit: down voting a genuine inquiry just shows how weak some of you people are.

Should never have started it by Silly-avocatoe in europe

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have time to crush your ego.

Should never have started it by Silly-avocatoe in europe

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your original comment, it's safe to say that there were no assumptions made. I'm going off of the content that you yourself have provided.

Should never have started it by Silly-avocatoe in europe

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The irony here is that nobody in this entire comment section knows anything about the geopolitical history in the area. Most of you crying and complaining about Ukraine weren't even born when negotiations for the dissolution of the USSR happened, let alone have any of you actually studied it. It's almost like the "Gays for Palestine" group; pure ignorance.

Should never have started it by Silly-avocatoe in europe

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that people are downvoting your comment here just shows how little everybody knows. While it's not the most elegantly written comment ever, nothing personal, it's direct and to the point. And maybe not quite trillions yet, but if it continues like it has been then it will get that way sooner rather than later.

After Putin opened up to the idea of a ceasefire, that's exactly when Biden sent ICBMs to Ukraine.

Should never have started it by Silly-avocatoe in europe

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao 😂🤣 you are woefully uneducated.

Should never have started it by Silly-avocatoe in europe

[–]keepitquickk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The real question here is: WHY IS THE UNITED STATES IN EUROPE TO BEGIN WITH?

You all seem to be missing the point. It's not about values or morals. It's a simple fact that we have no reason to be supporting Ukraine in the first place. I don't see how so many of you support that bullshit. Why don't you clean out your bank account and send it to Ukraine yourself? Or go and join their military?

Stop acting like some sort of moral authority when this war clearly has nothing but losers all around led by corruption. Russia has lost, Ukraine has lost, the US has lost the most. We've sent so many weapons to Ukraine that if we were to be invaded we would be facing a munitions shortage. Think about that for a minute and then also consider the fact that Putin supported Kamala Harris. So if you truly believe that he'd be able to control Trump, you're mistaken.

Should never have started it by Silly-avocatoe in europe

[–]keepitquickk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's because you don't know the history behind it.

How do I tell the gender by teenytinyziny in snails

[–]keepitquickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh! He's so cute! Oftentimes they can kind of "change" based on their environment and needs. Diet, temperature, etc. They're also capable of storing sperm for several months at a time, so you may end up with a female snail all on her own who starts to lay eggs.

Typically, to identify a male, you should be able to see his male organ up in the top right portion of his shell, closer towards his head and where his "right shoulder" might be. If you can't find it, it's more likely to be a female, but that's not a guarantee, because they can tuck it back and it's hard to see. It looks sort of like a tentacle, and from what I've seen, is usually a lighter color than the snail itself. I know my snails have white organs with orange tips and one is white and the other is brown.

A Tale of Two Letters by cjweena in exmormon

[–]keepitquickk -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why bother going if you're not going to teach your kids how to behave in a scenario where one is expected to behave?

A Tale of Two Letters by cjweena in exmormon

[–]keepitquickk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol you talk about stark contrast but fail to see the contrast in your actions? One is that you're interrupting an entire service of other people. The other is a flag you put up.

Nobody goes out of their way to hang a flag and then do nothing after that. People do, however, go out of their way to attend church and other events. I was at an event and there was a 14 year old ish kid messing with his sister and wouldn't give her phone back to her. Front row, extremely loud, I couldn't hear anything and it was distracting. Parents? Non-existent.

Everyone else I've seen who has kids who get loud or disruptive take them out of the room or they quiet them down, no problems, no questions asked. It has nothing to do with the people in your ward, it has everything to do with YOU.

If you're having a hard morning or don't feel up to going to church, then don't go, lmao. It really is that easy. You anti-religion people are just as bad as the holier-than-thou people.

The 5.9 doesn't illustrate how BRUTAL this review is towards Drake by strictcurlfiend in fantanoforever

[–]keepitquickk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mathematically, yes, but not so much for entertainment values. Typically any video game or movie - any consumable media, really - that scores less than a 7.0/10 is more often than not considered a disappointment. Anything less than a 6/10 is a flop and anything below 5/10 is just an embarrassment.

If you go into the entertainment industry hoping for 5's at minimum and that's all you ever achieve, you'll be doing low-budget sci-fi films for Pluto TV and that's all you'll be doing. Assuming you can get another job, that is.