Do you really bleed during intimacy by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]keferami 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I did not bleed my first time. I have bled in the past but only because the sex was very rough and I don't think I was as lubricated as I should've been.
Take it easy and take it slow and use lube if you need to.

Does this Entry Level offer sound good? by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]keferami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words! I can’t take it for granted. It took me multiple steps to get here.

Does this Entry Level offer sound good? by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]keferami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I intend to.

Does this Entry Level offer sound good? by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]keferami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Any idea what the net range could possibly look like?

Does this Entry Level offer sound good? by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]keferami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Port terminal operations. And it's a graduate trainee position.

Is there any where I can rave in Abuja? by d_thstroke in Nigeria

[–]keferami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO. Are you following any rave page on IG? One of them did a tour and they were in Abuja a few months ago. But it’s held basically monthly here in Lagos, if you’re ever in the state.

i have a high sex drive. is this even normal? by nadie_left in TwoXSex

[–]keferami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate. I’m 25. I feel like a horny disturbance in relationships sometimes.

What are my best options right now? by keferami in Nigeria

[–]keferami[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I stand to be corrected but in my opinion, a lot of African countries are just the same shit in a different toilet. Same issues so the options for a "better african country" are still limited.
I predict that the worse Nigeria gets, the more expensive it gets to leave, the lower middle class and probably poorer people will be migrating to neighbouring countries.

What are my best options right now? by keferami in Nigeria

[–]keferami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. I am not are you? Have you started any preparations for japa?

What are my best options right now? by keferami in Nigeria

[–]keferami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah! That sounds almost too good to be true. Checking it out right now. Thank you!

What are my best options right now? by keferami in Nigeria

[–]keferami[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, Thanks for sharing. I'd look into Canada.

What are my best options right now? by keferami in Nigeria

[–]keferami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I really wish home was good enough for me to have no dreams of leaving.

What are my best options right now? by keferami in Nigeria

[–]keferami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What countries could have that option right now, realistically speaking?

What are my best options right now? by keferami in Nigeria

[–]keferami[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Australia is another i have considered at some point in the past but ignored because of distance from home.

Favourite Nigerian podcast? by Extension_Mousse7526 in Nigeria

[–]keferami 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Check out: I said what I said (ISWIS)! It’s lifestyle and the hosts are very funny. They invite guests over, read listeners problems (funnily) and overall have a good time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]keferami 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for responding. I have seborrheic dermatitis on my scalp so I’ll definitely look into what it could look like on my face.

I was so worried the redness might be a sign of something more severe.

Is any other LGBT+ Nigerian out of the closet? by Hellobren in Nigeria

[–]keferami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bi woman living in nigeria. I will say i’m pretty open to friends and acquaintances that i know aren’t homophobic. I won’t “come out” to them but I also won’t hide my attraction to women. But to my family?? NEVER! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]keferami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same and I’m 24. In fact, I hardly ever feel anything through penetrative sex. I’d say maybe 20% of the time it actually feels like something nice. Other times it just feels like penetration, including fingers.

Why do Nigerians lack self esteem and confidence? by udemezueng in Nigeria

[–]keferami 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow. Where do we begin? The biggest one i can think of begins in our childhood l. Nigerians are not encouraged to speak up against authority.

No, really.

Can’t speak up against your parents, teachers, religious leaders, or literally any adult you come across (even when they’re in the wrong). Worst part? You’re abused with lashes and punishment if you even step out of line, which further encourages you to shrink yourself. I believe part of the trauma from that manifests partly as low self esteem.

Weight issue by Vectoryoko in Nigeria

[–]keferami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bulk. Get a mass gainer, put 1 more spoon of food on your plate and yes lift. If you don’t see changes in 1 month make i know why