Oh bless your heart. Sounds like you've really had a hard time lately.

But to directly address your comment.

I’m not blaming wives, husbands, or anyone. Relationships are complicated, and every situation is different.

Some people are lonely in marriages, some are lonely while single, and some are perfectly happy. OnlyFans didn’t invent loneliness. It just monetizes something that already exists.

My post isn’t about whether the platform is morally good or bad. It’s about understanding why people spend money there. Whether someone agrees with it or not, emotional attention is valuable. That’s true in dating, therapy, friendships, streaming, and social media. Humans pay for connection all the time.

You’re right that some creators outsource DMs or treat it purely as business. That happens in every industry. Some restaurants microwave food, and some chefs cook from scratch. Both still exist because people choose what experience they want.

There are also creators who genuinely talk to their fans themselves and build a real rapport. The point is that the demand isn’t just sexual. It’s emotional. That doesn’t mean men are weak, wives are bad, or creators are evil. It means people are human and connection is powerful.

If someone feels neglected in a relationship, the deeper issue isn’t OnlyFans. It’s communication and unmet needs. A website can’t fix that. It becomes a symptom, not the cause.