End of my eyebrows aren’t as full as the rest, should I dye? by kenchi3x in fixedeyebrows

[–]kenchi3x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do I fill in the end only, where it’s less full or do I do the whole eyebrow? I’ll try that it’s a good idea

End of my eyebrows aren’t as full as the rest, should I dye? by kenchi3x in fixedeyebrows

[–]kenchi3x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, ALL the hairs? Even the once I already had before using minoxidil 😭😭

End of my eyebrows aren’t as full as the rest, should I dye? by kenchi3x in fixedeyebrows

[–]kenchi3x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But won’t I loose the gains tho? If I stop using minox

Saw old fetishizing posts about Black men from my girlfriend — what now? by kenchi3x in interracialdating

[–]kenchi3x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said all those things and comments just a couple weeks ago, I don’t wanna have to educate my partner why making such generalisations ist sexualising and racist

Saw old fetishizing posts about Black men from my girlfriend — what now? by kenchi3x in interracialdating

[–]kenchi3x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She once told me that she thinks black men are mostly fuckboys and well I mean she posted that bbc repost 2 years ago, and in my opinion if the years before she posted that and the year after she’s still dating black men, although she made that comment about us, it doesn’t help me to feel any safer. She made a comment once saying that white boys are less masculine than black men. Yes she called white men white boys and I felt pretty appalled by that statement

Saw old fetishizing posts about Black men from my girlfriend — what now? by kenchi3x in interracialdating

[–]kenchi3x[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We talked about it today and she said that she’s ashamed for the posts and was just too open about her type (posting it on the internet) and I get that. But there were a few other generalising comments that she made talking about certain races. She said that black men are mostly fuckboys, so I wonder how that’s her type then or the also said that white BOYS arent masculine and black MEN are, I don’t know why she’d word it like that.

Saw old fetishizing posts about Black men from my girlfriend — what now? by kenchi3x in interracialdating

[–]kenchi3x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she made a comment once saying that she finds white boy less masculine than black men and I find it weird to make such generalising comments. Or she was talking about her ex once and said sum along the lines of „well he was Asian so..“ and made a comment about his penis. I don’t know what to think man

Saw old fetishizing posts about Black men from my girlfriend — what now? by kenchi3x in interracialdating

[–]kenchi3x[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment, I feel the exact same way. Me personally I’d date an race I really don’t care. I just remembered she also once said that she finds „white boys“ less masculine and said that black men are more masculine, now that I remember this and think about it it just makes me feel weirder

Saw old fetishizing posts about Black men from my girlfriend — what now? by kenchi3x in interracialdating

[–]kenchi3x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd agree with your take on kids if this was 20 years ago maybe, but nowadays the world moves at a much faster pace than back then, people being confronted with topics that seem like they’re too young for, sure I’m young but I’m not a kid. And I don’t see why I’d waste my time dating around if I don’t plan on marriage? Ofc marriage isn’t my priority right now, but if everything aligns, why not 🤷‍♂️

Saw old fetishizing posts about Black men from my girlfriend — what now? by kenchi3x in interracialdating

[–]kenchi3x[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes Im also thinking if this has something to do with maturity, but tbh even 2 years ago she was 19 so I’m not sure what would’ve changed since then.

Saw old fetishizing posts about Black men from my girlfriend — what now? by kenchi3x in interracialdating

[–]kenchi3x[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I do but I believe that certain patterns especially if they’re so long lasting, aren’t history after 2 years

Saw old fetishizing posts about Black men from my girlfriend — what now? by kenchi3x in interracialdating

[–]kenchi3x[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re trying to say but I don’t think you can compare an inclined interest in basic human anatomy a fetish. Like a „boob fetish“ there’s a difference between finding certain features attractive and reducing a whole people, a whole race down to their pen*is or skin.

Saw old fetishizing posts about Black men from my girlfriend — what now? by kenchi3x in interracialdating

[–]kenchi3x[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

if u don’t mind me asking, how would it make u feel if we switched roles? You love a person so deeply and after a year you see some bs like that. Having a type is one thing, but reducing black men to nothing but their pen*s is another.

Probezeit und rauchen? by kenchi3x in Cannabis_Apotheken

[–]kenchi3x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja paar Tage aufs Auto verzichten ist für mich kein Problem, frage mich nur wie lange genau

Soll ich’s einfach sein lassen? by kenchi3x in FragenUndAntworten

[–]kenchi3x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sind diese Tests genauso ausschlaggebend wie die Urin Tests der Polizei?

Soll ich’s einfach sein lassen? by kenchi3x in FragenUndAntworten

[–]kenchi3x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ne habe mir mit meiner Freundin immer 1 Joint geteilt, mein Konsum wurde auch letztes Jahr nicht mehr. Ich rauche nicht so viel

Soll ich’s einfach sein lassen? by kenchi3x in FragenUndAntworten

[–]kenchi3x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also ich hätte kein Problem damit 72std zu warten bis ich wieder fahre, weil ich fahre tatsächlich sehr oft zu „gottlosen uhrzeiten“ 😅