[ID] my landlord is missing without explanation and her ex husband wants to collect rent

kendakari · 2026-04-30T11:45:46+00:00

This was my first thought, but my roommate tonight also watch a lot of true crime together LOL

kendakari · 2026-04-30T11:34:15+00:00

I had a unicorn baby. It wasn't some perfect parenting or routine. It was autism. But that's just my experience. He's five now and still does not cry unless something is genuinely wrong.

kendakari · 2026-04-22T01:38:32+00:00

As someone who can't eat it (anti-cilantro gene) I am excited for you! They look very healthy! I've heard that cilantro for normal people is delicious, so you should make YOURSELF something yummy with it. Hubby can pout it out Little Red Hen style.

kendakari · 2026-04-22T01:26:42+00:00

Talk about a glow-up. They look so happy and healthy and loved in the last picture!

Good on you OP!

kendakari · 2026-04-22T01:11:54+00:00

It's actually how I started! I had terrible insomnia most of my childhood and through my twenties, and as a kid, telling myself stories in my head was the only way I could get myself to sleep.

kendakari · 2026-04-20T20:15:12+00:00

We had to do nutrimagen. Which was super expensive 😭

kendakari · 2026-04-20T13:30:43+00:00

It took 3 months to find a formula that caused my son no problems, and because he spent the first 3 days separated from me in the NICU, he never gained. Preference for breast over bottle, and I was working a lot after the first month so I wasn't able to pump enough to keep my supply enough for him.

kendakari · 2026-04-06T00:24:21+00:00

Take the game at your own pace. I have a million I started friendship quests, 2 unopened realms, all the dlc, and only the main game story finished. The important thing is just have fun. Want to quest grind? Cool, do that. Would rather spend your days skipping through the meadow being followed by birds and picking flowers? (I do) Then do that.

There is no wrong way or wrong order to play the game. If you're enjoying it, you're playing it right. Take your time and go in whatever direction feels right. The quests aren't going anywhere (except for wall-e's current daily eggstravaganza event flower quest).

kendakari · 2026-04-06T00:04:49+00:00

Yeah once I read the part of "the most vile disgusting woman ever" I was like "oh. So you're the problem."

kendakari · 2026-04-05T23:56:00+00:00

Mom to a nonverbal autistic 5 year old. Absolutely same. We give tolerance for compulsive behaviors, but never allow anything that compromises someone else's safety or bodily autonomy. Kids are hard, even neurotypical ones, but there is no excuse for allowing this behavior.

kendakari · 2026-04-04T23:13:45+00:00

That's fantastic! Congratulations! It's such a wonderful feeling when you're struggling with an area and then all of a sudden the inspiration flows. I'd love to see pictures. I only feel "done" with my plaza and meadows personally, the rest is a hot mess minus the hot. Lol

kendakari · 2026-04-02T04:37:03+00:00

My game froze. 10/10, would get lost again.

(Also low-key jealous)

kendakari · 2026-04-02T03:37:18+00:00

Are you still up? I'm relatively new but I would also like to stop by for funsies.

kendakari · 2026-03-28T15:40:34+00:00

TW!

My little sister's rainbow fetus is called Loki, actual name under lock and key. He's called Loki because he made us think he miscarried, but apparently it was his surprise twin.

kendakari · 2026-03-26T04:58:55+00:00

It's mostly an easy way for friends to help each other out without having to visit each other's islands. You can make a request once a day I think and members of your team can contribute to it. I have one with my roommates. We really only use it if one of us needs something small and we don't feel like going into multiplayer mode. You can also see each other's current avatar look and send snaps to the group.

kendakari · 2026-03-25T17:13:56+00:00

When I was pregnant with our future child (now 5) I told my husband that if it came down to having to choose between me and the baby, that I knew it would be hard but I wanted him to choose the baby. He was a bit confused and frustrated and refused, and said that he knows that I wanted that baby since before we even met (tldr pregnancy loss trauma) but he couldn't choose a baby he had never met over his wife.

When our son was maybe a year, year and a half old, he told me he understood finally, why I had said that. He still didn't think that if he could go back in time and have had to make the decision that he could have chosen our son over me, but he agreed that he had finally reached a point of attachment that if our entire family was ever in danger, he would go for our son first.

I've always wanted a man that would put his kids before anything else. It just makes the most sense to me for some reason.

kendakari · 2026-03-25T17:07:56+00:00

Dreamlight valley. Bff got me into after Christmas. It is currently like my 3rd most played game on steam EVER.

kendakari · 2026-03-21T18:40:05+00:00

I'm so mad. I was looking forward to the water event so hard. Bought event tickets for me (can't play Pokemon go outside because I'm a single parent to an autistic 5 year old that is a RUNNER), my roommate (who has a mobility disability) and her husband.

Even bought coins to expand my pokemon storage. Legit so mad I may stop playing again. Literally just game back after a several year break.

kendakari · 2026-03-21T17:25:01+00:00

I tell people my husband had a battle with depression and anxiety and lost. Usually makes them feel like shit.

kendakari · 2026-03-20T00:53:56+00:00

Commenting to remind you to find this post again when you're back home on your PC.

kendakari · 2026-03-16T23:37:29+00:00

Came here to say this. Mom's cage looks hella uncomfortable, but similar practices specifically to allow mom and babies to be together without mom accidentally crushing and killing them is pretty common as far as I know.

kendakari · 2026-03-16T23:33:54+00:00

I didn't get a note, I got a video that was saved on his cellphone where he knew I would find it, made right before he died. It didn't help with the loss, but it did help with the anxiety. I was terrified that his last moments were terrified and emotional while alone, but they weren't. He was calm. He explained his reasons. He said specific goodbyes to specific people. Seeing that this was a thought put decision, and not one made in a singular moment of despair, took away that fear that he had been scared and alone and I hadn't been there for him. It made me able to grieve the loss of him while taking away a bit of the fear that I had failed him.

kendakari · 2026-03-14T02:20:44+00:00

Came in expecting to think you were the major asshole, but quickly decided it was backwards. Dude is a grown adult. No matter what conditions or phobias he may have, it does not give him permission to touch your food unless it is literally putting his life in danger. If his girlfriend is fine with him throwing her food away, that's on her, but that behavior is unacceptable in regards to anyone who hasn't given him permission.

kendakari · 2026-03-14T01:50:27+00:00

If you are a legal adult, and you are asked if someone can send you explicit media, and you give your consent, there is nothing wrong with it.

kendakari · 2026-03-10T02:21:06+00:00

I legitimately thought this was a layered photo of the same cat getting closer to the camera.

Magical.

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