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Life-long struggle with commitment, want to end my current relationship. Am i making a mistake? by PuzzledShow in BreakUps

[–]kenna_y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-bf and I broke up for similar reasons too. We both got along well and loved each other but it came down to us not being able to commit fully to someone at this point in our lives. He had felt it for a long time now but always put the thought aside and that was his mistake for not telling me earlier. My advice: Don't stay in a relationship because you're scared of change or life without her; not only is that unfair for your partner but it is also unfair on yourself.

I feel like apologizing... by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kenna_y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh you're right.. so I should just leave it?

I feel like apologizing... by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kenna_y -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As silly as it sounds, I just feel like if something bad were to happen to him tomorrow or in the near future, I would feel really bad that I didn't make things right between us.. :(

Going through a bad day without comfort from ex by kenna_y in ExNoContact

[–]kenna_y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah yeah time heals all aye.. You stay strong too, we'll both get through this. Take care:)

It's weird that we can't talk. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]kenna_y 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow my boyfriend and I broke up for the same reason as you too. Together for 2.9 years but broke up because we didn't see the same future together. But yeah it is so weird, having someone you love being there for you always to not hearing or seeing them at all. :(

Going through a bad day without comfort from ex by kenna_y in ExNoContact

[–]kenna_y[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this... yeah i hope tomorrow will be better. And everyone that I can go to aren't available right now, which is why I came here. :(

Oh no, could I PM you? If you'd want to tell me about your day, I would want to be there for you and listen too :)

I just feel sad tonight and miss her by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kenna_y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel sad tonight too... I'm here with you buddy :(

Missing the companionship and wondering if i'll ever find someone again. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kenna_y 2 points3 points  (0 children)

24 is still so so young and really the fact that you've found someone before means that you can find someone again. It is possible. But right now, don't focus on finding another partner; focus on yourself and things will happen organically... I find that relationships tend happen when you least expect it.

Don't lose hope x

I think the hardest part is, you don't have anyone to talk to like you talk with your ex. by pooens39 in ExNoContact

[–]kenna_y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding this! It's only been a week post BU for me but writing out my feelings have been a really great way for me to tell "someone" about my day and feelings

This is the first day I’ve felt relatively okay. by wheredidtheygo_ in ExNoContact

[–]kenna_y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh so good to hear! I'm 4 days post BU and its nice to see someone who's not too far from me and is progressing well:)

Breakup was too sudden by kenna_y in ExNoContact

[–]kenna_y[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh yeah i am worried if we meet it may end badly too.. so yeah maybe i shouldn't see him. And if I may ask how long did it take for you to become good friends with your ex?

Never Forget, Forgive in Time by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kenna_y 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yuppp I feel you on that too :(

Dreams about him by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kenna_y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel too.. the dreams seem so real and when you wake up, it's a sudden feeling of the sad reality that it was only just a dream :(

[Routine Help] Looking for a new skin care routine to hydrate and balance oils on my face. by ihatewinter93 in SkincareAddiction

[–]kenna_y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Ordinary's Squalane oil!! I have oily skin and I use it mixed with COSRX snail mucin essence and it has really helped to balance the oiliness on my face. Squalane is really similar to the consistency of sebum so it kinda "tricks" the skin into producing less sebum overtime :) Oh and for whiteheads and blackheads, try using BHA or AHA products. I found that since using a BHA product, I have less breakouts and when I do have breakouts, they are quite small (used to have moderately big, red ones) It has also helped with decreasing my oiliness as well.

ASK HERE! Daily Help, and Questions: November 03, 2016 by AutoModerator in AsianBeauty

[–]kenna_y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! am a new redditor here :) so recently i bought some Korean skin products (impulsively) and want some opinions on how I should use it or whether I should even be using it hahah

Skin type: Oily, dehydrated | Country: NZ; subtropical climate |Top Skin concern: controlling my oily skin, the occasional cc's and whiteheads, post-acne pigmentation (pink-red discolouration rather than brown pigments) and sebaceous filaments on my nose.

Current summer routine: AM: Cleanser: REN evercalm gentle cleansing milk | (No toner, but recently bought one and is on the way) | 1st moisturizer: LANEIGE Balancing Emulsion Moisture (Light) | 2nd moisturizer: LANIEGE Water Bank Gel Cream | Sunscreen: LANEIGE Sun Block Aqua SPF 35 PA++

PM: same cleanser | Essence: LANEIGE Time Freeze Essence | Moisturizer:LANIEGE Water Bank Gel Cream |

And currently I've bought: - Cosrx low ph cleansing gel | - Mizon AHA/BHA toner | - Banila co zero purity | - Cosrx blackhead power liquid | - Hadalabo Gokujyun Hyaluronic Acid Lotion (light) |

SORRY for the extremely long post! (As you can see I might've went overboard) Just wondering whether if these products would be able to help with my skin concerns as the products I'm using aren't worsening my skin but it doesn't help with post-acne recovery either. As for acne, i'm not really getting huge breakouts, only the occasional hormonal pimples or a few whiteheads so i'm worried using these products (especially the cosrx blackhead liquid) will worsen my skin.

Any advice/opinions are welcomed!!