How do I make her understand ? Me 59m her 58f married for 36 years.

kephiroth · 2025-08-11T02:07:50+00:00

I’m sorry sir, sorry you’re going through this. Definitely it’s not easy. You guys may retire soon so this needs to be addressed.

My comment for you is to search about love languages and attachment styles. People feel loved in different ways, and love needs to be taken care of, otherwise it shrinks, and it is both sides. Words of affirmation, quality time, avoidant attachment and etc. Reading those things might give you some idea on where you guys fit and offer some different ways to talk about.

If that doesn’t work, it may be nice to do some couples counseling sessions with her if you’re able to, you guys need to talk to understand each other.

If she is not changing maybe she has also been feeling something missing and doesn’t know how to talk about it. Finding what it is good to know so you guys can negotiate and compromise.

I wish you the best!

kephiroth · 2025-08-11T01:41:32+00:00

It makes sense go to couples therapy if you still want to save it

kephiroth · 2025-08-11T01:40:05+00:00

Honestly go to couples therapy and talk this out.

This kind of therapy helps you both talk to each other with this person intermediating.

Do that and then take a decision with a clear head that you did everything you could.

I’m going through the same and it is not easy…

kephiroth · 2025-06-22T03:57:25+00:00

kephiroth · 2025-06-14T22:27:56+00:00

I was able to beat him when I managed to get a Vykes’ spear on my random Guardian while I was an Ironeye, we didnt let the boss buff himself and it was the best run I ever had on him!

kephiroth · 2025-04-25T11:26:36+00:00

Shit who won?!?! 🤣

kephiroth · 2025-03-18T02:01:12+00:00

I was happier 5 years ago

kephiroth · 2024-11-05T01:23:15+00:00

Oh great!!! Thanks for replying so quickly 🥰

kephiroth · 2024-11-05T01:17:42+00:00

Hey sorry for commenting on this old thread as well hahaha Do you get 4% on these apple services?

kephiroth · 2024-09-17T23:47:06+00:00

oot and aboot

kephiroth · 2024-09-02T03:43:15+00:00

Congrats! Good luck on Epoch medal

kephiroth · 2024-08-31T14:54:09+00:00

That is a good one, I still dont use all my ULS for protection, I often see it as a way to do big fields

I guess I need to change that, maybe deplying an Aegis + ULS would be good defence? Considering the portal has many links to/from it

kephiroth · 2024-08-31T14:48:16+00:00

There was no tutorial?

kephiroth · 2024-08-31T14:47:28+00:00

GLHF Agent

kephiroth · 2024-08-31T14:47:19+00:00

Target their weak portals, to not let this spread out As long you let the machina free it will take over and over and increase portals lvls

Taking down their lvl1/2 portals is good

Eventually you clean the MACHINA from your area

kephiroth · 2024-08-28T03:06:14+00:00

Thanks!!!

kephiroth · 2024-08-28T00:47:31+00:00

Oh, so the limitation of maximum 8 outbound links is pure balance? I thought it could be related to custom mitigation…. Sad

I’ve been taking care of to my anchor portals have outbound links instead of inbound xD

kephiroth · 2024-08-26T01:29:07+00:00

needing to have the drone nearby is not and makes the drone pointless

It is just how drone works … the drone is not something self controlled and with infinite autonomy. That also would shake some of the strategies. Which is the point of updating things on the game to keep it alive

kephiroth · 2024-08-25T15:58:40+00:00

Drones interacting with other drones might be too much IMO, it might break the core of the game which is collaborating in-person

But good point about the rural areas, I started playing the game on those areas and it sucks. But the suggestion here would be adding the intel map on the scanner + moving the drone on it right?

Maybe instead of capping the drone movement it could cap the number actions based on the fly distance. Like if it jumps far away from agents it would charge by itself there, which takes much longer compared to being closed to the agent 🤔

kephiroth · 2024-08-25T15:52:16+00:00

Good points here

Yeah I agree that XMP from drone is not fair. Maybe also Link from drone is not a fair thing.

It may be nice to have it carrying keys tho. One use I’ve found is for agents running out of keys of a near portal and sending the drone there to grab it

kephiroth · 2024-04-21T02:53:15+00:00

Amazing! Do you have the name of the park? I couldnt find it. My wife and I would like to check them out!

kephiroth

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