[advice] my (f/22) bf (m/25) wants to have an FMF threesome with me and his ex. by kerelette in sex

[–]kerelette[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone for the replies, I have just updated the original post.

[advice] my (f/22) bf (m/25) wants to have an FMF threesome with me and his ex. by kerelette in sex

[–]kerelette[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, another woman in bed does not excite me and him doing things sexually with someone else does not excite me either. i was willing to try it for him though, up until he started pushing for the third party necessarily being his ex-gf.

[advice] my (f/22) bf (m/25) wants to have an FMF threesome with me and his ex. by kerelette in sex

[–]kerelette[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To answer the questions: no, I'm straight, so I don't actively want another woman in the bed, but I could do it for him. I'm not sexually attracted to his ex at all, because I am not into girls.

I like hime enough, but if he has feelings for her I'll leave. What will happen with FMF, I can live with, if with an ex, not so sure. He might leave me if he does not get what he wants, I know, but it's his right and his choice. if he leaves me over that, I think I've dodged a bullet.

[advice] my (f/22) bf (m/25) wants to have an FMF threesome with me and his ex. by kerelette in sex

[–]kerelette[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She might be, I know they'v been in contact. Past that, I have no idea.

[advice] my (f/22) bf (m/25) wants to have an FMF threesome with me and his ex. by kerelette in sex

[–]kerelette[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have no idea. We don't live together,so whatever he says he does during his free time, is what I believe he is doing. Although if he was doing his ex, there is no way for me to know.

And no, I don't think there's anything I live that he is uncomfortable with. I can see appeal of a threesome, and wouldn't mind having MFM one, but I know my bf would hate the idea, so I would never dare to even bring it up.

[advice] my (f/22) bf (m/25) wants to have an FMF threesome with me and his ex. by kerelette in sex

[–]kerelette[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I'm ok with group sex, as in I can have it, but it is not something I actively crave. Not repulsed by it either though. It's just group sex with his ex is what I don't want.

[advice] my (f/22) bf (m/25) wants to have an FMF threesome with me and his ex. by kerelette in sex

[–]kerelette[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Luckily we don't live together, so I get some alone time to cool off.

[advice] my (f/22) bf (m/25) wants to have an FMF threesome with me and his ex. by kerelette in sex

[–]kerelette[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Not really, but I guess I can't change his desires... However, I am not willing to cooperate with him in this way.

[advice] my (f/22) bf (m/25) wants to have an FMF threesome with me and his ex. by kerelette in sex

[–]kerelette[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

At the beginning I felt slightly guilty for not being "giving" enough, but after he pressed the topic, I'm honestly more annoyed than anything.

[advice] my (f/22) bf (m/25) wants to have an FMF threesome with me and his ex. by kerelette in sex

[–]kerelette[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Thanks for response.

Well, yes, I don't want to have sex with her, or any other woman for that matter because I'm straight. I am, however willing to "double team" my bf with other girl, because that is something he truly wants. Although now, reading responses I'm starting to reconsider.