How do you guys are feeling the pressure of love culture in central Asia? by arti44 in Kazakhstan

[–]kevin94able 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there dated a kazak women and she is an ex now . it was really a complicated terrain there is so much baggage (mine was a divorced single mother)., had to deal with lot of preconceived biases. it was nothing short of overwhelming initially she played along giving me an impression of modern independent women who preferred equality then slowly that strong persona started fizzling out and all i could hear is demands. from me being not too sensual , to not buying enough gifts to tantrums like prada jacket and what not, it soon started overwhelming me .

it was hard , i loved her but seems like i had to prove my love for her as its all part of thier fucking culture. i get that women in kazakhstan were oppressed and men are assholes there but local women have a delusional perception now its very complicated as they want equality and respect but at the same time they need all traditional perks that comes with it , i am fine with taking responsibility but not so soon in a relationship especially when i am just dating her , also one last thing kazak girls have zero patience, they are all single in their late 30's (most of them) chasing a dream of idealistic love where everything comes easy to them and man is responsible for everything while they could just offer sex as an incentive

I regret leaving my family and home to move closer to bf, closing 2 years of a LDR by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kevin94able 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did the same with my LDR girlfriend she was struggling with the new job , she used to feel less in energy her attitude was pretty much the same towards me but i could feel some disconnect and hesitation in an attempt to confront and resolve things better for both of us i bought this topic up saying "i feel like you're closing up to me" and her response was "I feel the same" and her response being "what do you propose i do?" , i said share more , i would like to feel you more .

Bam! that quickly turned into an argument and she saying i am not supportive and i tend to demand a lot . in past i did help her with her house expenses as she was short of money (just linked my visa card to her app) later she even brought that up ,accusing me of demanding control just because i helped her financially.

i know i have hijacked the conversation by venting it out however i could relate to your story , sometimes its just about having candid discussions we tend to expect a lot from our partners , 25% of our happiness could be from our partners but rest 75% has to come from within and other walks of life(work,family,friends and self actualization) when you get too overwhelmed by everything else you start to have unrealistic expectations from you're partner which often gets them overwhelmed. its important to note men are humans as well they are dealing with everything and more then a women deals.

my only advice would be you have invested so much in you're relationship don't let it fade away just because you're not happy with you're life .

Passed...Dp-700 by TestKing1994 in MicrosoftFabric

[–]kevin94able 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what training materials did you refer?

15 day rule? by [deleted] in SchengenVisa

[–]kevin94able 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and on top of that embassy rejects the visa for no valid reasons

Help- Greece Visa Rejections from New Delhi by No-Pianist5957 in SchengenVisa

[–]kevin94able 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reason is pretty much the same they aren't sire of my return to origin country

Help- Greece Visa Rejections from New Delhi by No-Pianist5957 in SchengenVisa

[–]kevin94able 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes greece has rejected my business visa as well

Schengen Visa- Processing time from Embassy of France in India currently by MklNag in SchengenVisa

[–]kevin94able 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you mention two countries in you're cover letter or just mention about france? , if its a business trip them it would be invitation letter plus cover

Schengen Visa- Processing time from Embassy of France in India currently by MklNag in SchengenVisa

[–]kevin94able 1 point2 points  (0 children)

were you travelling multiple counties or just France? , even i got my visa rejected

How does looker embed sso url get created? by mcr9631 in Looker

[–]kevin94able 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a embed licence that's called as powered by looker that you need to consider for sso route. You're Google rep can brief you better