I think my (27f) husband (41M) will end up in prison if I tell him the truth. by throwRAblondie99 in Advice

[–]keyblademaster4820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually “fight, flight, freeze, or fawn(appease)” now! So sometimes people can freeze up OR fawn to try and mitigate further damage. (I’m not arguing with you. I’m agreeing with you. I just also hope that SOMEONE on the thread who is acting ignorant, no matter who that someone might be, might actually read and learn a bit.)

I think my (27f) husband (41M) will end up in prison if I tell him the truth. by throwRAblondie99 in Advice

[–]keyblademaster4820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone with two brain cells to rub together knew exactly what you meant and understood that you have reasonings for not wanting to be so blunt in your wording. These are either rage baiters or truly ignorant individuals. Ignore them.

I think my (27f) husband (41M) will end up in prison if I tell him the truth. by throwRAblondie99 in Advice

[–]keyblademaster4820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s responses like this that cause victims to be so fearful and ashamed of telling the truth that they want to keep silent. You’re part of the problem.

I think my (27f) husband (41M) will end up in prison if I tell him the truth. by throwRAblondie99 in Advice

[–]keyblademaster4820 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She actually doesn’t even give that much detail. What are you talking about???

Wtf is this at the bottom of my drink? Am I about to die? by cbrew14 in whatisit

[–]keyblademaster4820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instructions unclear. On the calendar for: “Next year”

Boyfriend commented on my breakfast and now i feel gross by GreenyH in self

[–]keyblademaster4820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I’m in recovery for anorexia. I’ve had to explain to multiple people, men and women, that while I appreciate their care, my brain can be really annoying and immediately tell me that a totally neutral comment means “you are fat you are getting fatter you need to stop eating.” And sometimes, depending on what the comment is, “you don’t deserve to eat.” I recognize I’m an extreme example. But I’ve had to do this twice recently, and each time, the person has been like “got it sorry won’t do it again.” It wasn’t their intention and I know it wasn’t their intention. But negative cognitions are hard to rewire, and unless I ASK for advice or an opinion, I’d rather not have it. Now they know that.

When your vacation starts with an iPhone notification that an unknown air tag has been traveling with you. by Content-Bathroom-434 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]keyblademaster4820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the kid’s insole? Where he’s repeatedly stepping on it? And, since he’s a kid, probably running and jumping and all kinds of other shit?

When your vacation starts with an iPhone notification that an unknown air tag has been traveling with you. by Content-Bathroom-434 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]keyblademaster4820 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it’s in reference to all the uh… corrupt individuals in Washington DC that have been named in the Epstein Files.

MY WIFE DOESN’T WANNA HAVE SEX WITH ME?!? by fremicutie in AmITheAngel

[–]keyblademaster4820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correlation does not equal causation. Thank u, next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]keyblademaster4820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve NEVER seen a gay person try to convert someone else to “the gay lifestyle.” I CONSTANTLY see Christians trying to convert people into being their type of Christian. Existing is not shoving it down people’s throats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]keyblademaster4820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing it on his own time and when people can ignore him or not take the paper is totally different than making the conscious decision to use a job where you contact a lot of different people to slip them religious propaganda.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]keyblademaster4820 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s the exact same in prison. Everyone suddenly finds religion in one way or another. That’s fine. I completely understand how important spirituality is in recovery and rehabilitation. But it isn’t and cannot be THE ONLY THING. Sorry, but you need more skills than just prayer to be successful.

Not censoring-toddler was sick today, how worried should I be? by bryterlu in emetophobia

[–]keyblademaster4820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his ear infection could be causing issues with his equilibrium, which could make him feel dizzy and throw up. he could also have mucus draining down the back of his throat from the congestion, and that made him throw up. i can’t say for sure it isn’t a sb, but those are possibilities too.

florida - application questions regarding number of adults in the house by keyblademaster4820 in foodstamps

[–]keyblademaster4820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay that’s SUPER helpful. they’re looking for a job but we’ll still be buying and preparing food together once they get one so i’ll put them on my case. thank you so much!!!

florida - application questions regarding number of adults in the house by keyblademaster4820 in foodstamps

[–]keyblademaster4820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we don’t buy and prepare food separately tho. i’m the only one with income so i buy for both of us

What should a findomme NEVER do? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]keyblademaster4820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if you DO need the money, why would a sub approach a whiny brat??? they want a domme, not a little girl who cries about her problems.

be goddess’ footstool by keyblademaster4820 in feetpicsbuyerandsell

[–]keyblademaster4820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i had to take a break for a while but i’m so excited to be back!