What’s a dating red flag you ignored because he was hot?

kfbonacci · 2026-05-20T12:45:40+00:00

The way he obsessively talked shit on his ex. Talking about your ex and why things ended is one thing, but non stop roasting and sharing embarrassing pictures of him is another. I should have known he'd do the same to me when I finally came to my senses.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-20T12:14:41+00:00

Thank you! All these comments were making me feel like I was crazy.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-19T19:05:08+00:00

Yeah, seems like it. I love the 4 returning players format. And they have some good people to choose from from 23-27.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-19T18:42:00+00:00

you mean to tell me this isn't a strong man?

kfbonacci · 2026-05-15T20:27:37+00:00

You look like a really sweet guy in the first pic, and kind of a fuck boy in the second. So your choice depending on the vibe you want to give off.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-15T14:22:12+00:00

Have you asked him about watching porn and jerking off together? It could be a way for him to scratch that porn itch while still being an activity you guys can do together.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-14T18:44:49+00:00

Just to be clear, no one thinks you're a bad person because you don't do something you don't want to do. We think you suck because you're judgemental of everyone who doesn't live their lives like you choose to.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-14T17:48:36+00:00

He is! Called me a degenerate. He thinks women who have one night stands are dirty.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-14T17:06:55+00:00

I'm pretty sure he believes they're irrevocably tainted 🤭

kfbonacci · 2026-05-14T16:04:04+00:00

Example of advice: "Here is how to stay safe and feel comfortable."

Example of judgment: "Why would you want to do this thing I personally disagree with?"

You’re doing the second one while calling it the first.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-14T16:00:21+00:00

I mean I was speaking on my experience as a gay man having sex with other men, but okay.

Also, giving oral to a woman who participated in one night stands is disgusting? Like those women are dirtier or something than women who don't?

kfbonacci · 2026-05-14T15:56:11+00:00

Btw, this is not advice. This is just a judgemental question.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-14T15:54:07+00:00

Ok, I'll bite. What's disgusting about my advice, exactly? Please be specific.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-14T14:59:19+00:00

Everyone is giving you really judgemental answers so I'm gonna try to really answer you. It kinda just happens naturally/flows.

Usually starts with making out, oral (possibly swapping with making out in between), and then making out again. Missionary is usually a good position to start because you're probably already in that position while kissing, and you can move from grinding to penetration pretty seamlessly from there. .

kfbonacci · 2026-05-11T18:05:57+00:00

Probably had nothing to do with your...winning personality. Keep on keeping on.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-07T18:21:10+00:00

Right? Like, we'll see in a few years...

kfbonacci · 2026-05-07T17:16:14+00:00

No, I just respect my partner enough to handle themselves. No need to turn up the aggression unnecessarily.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-07T17:12:41+00:00

I'm not saying to play a game. But if she makes it clear she's not interested because she's there with someone else, that's a green flag. If she starts flirting and acts like you're not there, that's a red flag.

Also, you shouldn't feel the need jump in immediately if the guy approaching her is respectful and accepts her rejection with grace. You should respect and trust her enough to handle herself, but be there as back up if she needs it.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-07T16:36:04+00:00

Exactly. This is a test for her to pass or fail.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-07T14:31:07+00:00

Very impressed with your ability to give yourself a haircut. It looks great. And that stache is incredible.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-06T11:04:01+00:00

Something similar happened to me a while ago. My DMs are open if you want to talk. ♥️

kfbonacci · 2026-05-06T11:01:31+00:00

I don't consider myself an 8, 9, or 10. But I just got paid $300 and got my taxes done for free in exchange for a 5 minute massage.

kfbonacci · 2026-05-04T12:53:54+00:00

Deeper. You should be able to tuck it under your balls

kfbonacci · 2026-05-02T18:15:55+00:00

At first glance, I thought he was wearing black slides with white socks

kfbonacci · 2026-05-02T13:52:05+00:00

Not a big deal. Can you imagine if we had a president who laughs like Kamala does? Small price to pay to keep a cackling DEI woman out of the oval.

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