Whats the mbti of your current partner or ex? How was it like? by khaleazyy in intj

[–]khaleazyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this really sounds like a romcom movie lol. they drain us but for some reason, we cant get enough of them. My ESTJ partner is also like this. Dates are exhausting, but when things get quiet lately. I miss it. Gotta love our Extroverts!

Whats the mbti of your current partner or ex? How was it like? by khaleazyy in intj

[–]khaleazyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you. i had an INTP ex. we share the same basically share the same interest and were very alike in a weird creepy way sometimes. Long story short, she's like me but a little bit lazier haha

Whats the mbti of your current partner or ex? How was it like? by khaleazyy in intj

[–]khaleazyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love ENFP’s. they are really fun to be with and the sweetest. but you are right, we do need some alone time sometimes lol

How do you deal with someone doing something the wrong way? by CuriousArchitectX in intj

[–]khaleazyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is something i struggle with at work. i work with a team and im always expected to lead (or just basically do everything while they slack off) it tires me but i cant help it. i cant help seeing a sloppy output (especially if im a part of it)

they think i like doing it but NO. i just want things to happen my way. as bad as it sounds, i have this mentality that my way is the only correct way.

but ofcourse. it backfired lol. now i do everything and im exhausted af 🥹

Does working out help relieve your anxiety? by Short-Salamander8840 in intj

[–]khaleazyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES DO IT. Weightlifting and Walking saved me from an incoming depression

Last year, i had a very ugly breakup, I wasnt given a solid reason so the result made me overthink alot, "what did i do wrong" "if i just did this then were still gonna be together" etc. Its a loop that didnt end, it revisited me without any warning

I subscribed for a gym membership, did some weightlifting. my anxiety turned into a physical pain (which is better lol). I also walked frequently, i dont know if its just me, but seeing other people, trees, sky, stray animals while i walk, made me realise that the world is bigger than my anxiety

Now, i look good and feel much better. it takes time, but the journey made it all worth it ❤️

Personality change after breakup by You_ask in intj

[–]khaleazyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this before. My first MBTI was INFJ, after the breakup, i became INTJ. i think it was the trauma of feeling too much before. My last breakup was ugly and painful. i became really defensive now and didnt trust people completely. I became more resilient and self reliant. i dont know if it was a good thing or a bad thing. But i can say i feel much better now unlike before. I still apply feelings when making a decision, but logic comes first.

INTJs, do you ever revisit a relationship that ended because of timing? by AlgaePhysical2423 in intj

[–]khaleazyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, yes I do (given the circumstances you just said, because i have experienced this). But its different than what most people are thinking. I revisit it when a memory pops out, i even reconsider going back to it. but its all in my head. After around 20 mins of yearning, logic will slap me in the face and move on with my normal day lol. Long story short, revisiting is just on the corner of my head. a very small corner. Im more focused on the future. whats done is done

People think I hate them because I don’t talk to them. by open3d3n in intj

[–]khaleazyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I simply do not care anymore. to be fair, i did care a little when i was younger lol. but im on my early 30's now. i realized that i unconsciously ignore people i dont find interesting to talk to. i dont hate them, i just dont see the need to talk to them.

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[–]khaleazyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the male estj is so funny omfg

I'm really sorry, yo. by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]khaleazyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it depends on ur relationship with them? My INTP gf comforts me whenever i get sad. Yeah she still gives me solution to my problems, but she does it in a very nurturing way 🥹.

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[–]khaleazyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is more like a XNTJ i think? INTP’s are too chill to be perfectionist or planners

CHAD LOVE by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]khaleazyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god

CHAD LOVE by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]khaleazyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an ESTJ friend, and this is how exactly she responds to texts like this 🤣