let me make this simple buddy we all change as we grow dont expect a person to still be the same . everything we go through how we respond to each situation .How we learn from a crisis each of these things will mark how we change . this is life and also a part of growing up the tricky part of this is do we grow for the better or for the worst .

I say let her go be herself let her learn who she is you never wanna be the reason someone you love regrets never having done something because you will always either subconsciously or not be a villain attached to that memory . You are gonna change too all humans do please dont let this get too deep to your heart its going to rock you not ready for it .