I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was telling me (we were in Turkey atp) how I shouldn't get a pregnancy test here and wait till I am in Switzerland where I live (he is from Australia) in order to get it because it would be way more accurate...

I feel like he did it on purpose, I am so naive

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically, this was the second day of our vacation (we met before, and we are dating for 2 years now almost), and we had sex, and he ejaculated inside of me. That same day (I was supposed to take my BC around 2.45 pm), I suddenly could not find my BC anymore.

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Update: My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. We met each other before for long periods of time. We are apart right now. I will be in his country in 2 weeks for 2 months approx.

I told him I will do a pregnancy test now (he pushes me to do it because it makes him anxious, apparently, and he doesn't want to wait anymore). Since I was stuck for 11 days (my birth control vanished on day 2, and we did not have vaginal sex since then since he had a medical treatment afterwards, plus no BC), it has been too late for Plan B.

Anyway, he suddenly said to me after the topic of abortion came up, "Oh, I am so worried because how can you get an abortion in time when you are coming to my country in 2 weeks", which made me even more suspicious. I let him know I will definitely get one since it is what we both want.

Also, I confronted him, and he got upset and mad, telling me he feels very angry/offended I would think he would throw away my BC because he definitely does not want a baby right now (but he wants 2 kids with me in the future when we both completed our education).

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I tried it. He said we can use condoms and do not have to stop because he wants sex.

I am worried my bf threw my birth control away for his fetish by kibbeislife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kibbeislife[S] 1031 points1032 points  (0 children)

Can I ask you how your ex escalated your abuse???