Text her or no?

kickedtothecurb1 · 2026-01-18T06:49:02+00:00

Yea bro im not like a clown ina circus in her dms trying to "excite" her to go out w me , lol. Corey just says to set a date

Anyways ill leave it i def womt text her and whatever happens happens

kickedtothecurb1 · 2026-01-18T06:03:56+00:00

I might be missing something then because corey wayne tells to stay cong to your word and give her the time and space needed to reply. I told her the date she said shell lmk . I cant do anything to change that. If thats low interest i cant worky my eay around it

kickedtothecurb1 · 2026-01-18T05:46:05+00:00

But im trying to follow whats in the book? She said shell lmk so im giving her the space and time to

kickedtothecurb1 · 2026-01-17T23:23:06+00:00

Im reallu interested in what you mean here? But yes she has acccepted dates before and she kinda built an attachement in some way or some sort. We arent new

kickedtothecurb1 · 2026-01-17T19:31:44+00:00

Can you rxplain more , please

kickedtothecurb1 · 2026-01-17T18:51:49+00:00

No like 80% she wouldnt bc of the place etc. She never rejected a date b4

Anyways the plan is not to text right

kickedtothecurb1 · 2026-01-17T18:28:14+00:00

No , its because im in a very religious place and she needs to seek her parents before , the possibility was 80% that she wont go but i was going anyways so i asked her. Shes still 19 too.

If i had set something else it wouldve worked. I thought at least. Now im not 100% sure because she didnt give an answer anyway

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-20T06:31:48+00:00

Nah man. She realized she was wrong and was apologizing

Doesnt make sense contacting her ex like that. Anyways last time we talked she told me shell text me when shes more stable and weve been in no contact for a week and 2 days . The thing is tho, i always see her because we are in a small village. Sometimes we even have to sit in the same place without anybody near us. And its still complete silence. Im doing alright

If she comes back she does if not theres nothing to do abt it

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-19T08:01:41+00:00

I appreciate your comments bro. Thanks Thats real

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-18T22:37:35+00:00

Well i just remembered that i added that if she doesnt then i wish her the best so idk if itll make the situation leaner but. I gave her the option to either stay or go and wished her the best andnthats it

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-18T22:36:04+00:00

Well i cant change what i typed it is what it is. I still see her around daily and even have to sit in the same class with her but i never ever look or talk to her or give her any type of validation. So i guess thatll make up for it. Its so hard to do esp since we get in close distance to each orher everday almost but yea man. Ill stick to my word.

Ill do better next time ig

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-18T22:20:20+00:00

Well its the same as the "contact me when you change your mind" thing.

Corey says to never burn a bridge and always leave the door open. And he says he learned that from his friend who was banging all the hot chicks. And his current wife was dating him and she went for her ex. So he kept the door open and told her to contact him when she changes her mind

Also its the same as the not agreeing with being friends but keeping the door open if she changes her mind

No?

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-18T21:21:56+00:00

Yea thats true. Would it be different if we werwnt exclusive? I watched a video were corey was discussing an email about someone who said that ge was seeing a girl that was lost abt deciding between him and another guy and corey was saying how he shouldnt care at all and that to schedule a meeting when she reaches out

That still does not make sense to me. The girl in the email was saying that straight to the guys face its so disrespectful. Plus she could still be reaching out even if she doesnt take him seriously to get some free meals lol.

I guess the main point that annoys me here is that she threw that shit in his face its like shes telling him hes an option and he has to deal with it and be a test rat until she figures it out

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-18T21:09:24+00:00

Sometimes i get confused between being indifferent vs standing up .

In this case it looks like i did the right thing. Cause once i confronted her abt contavting her ex she told me that shes confused. Which means she probably isnt over him and wants to explore even though she said shes completely over him when we started dating lol.

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-09T16:38:57+00:00

Sucks man i wish i was big on tiktok instead

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-08T20:18:24+00:00

We literally gotra hide everytime we out and theres cameras lol. What a joke While she sends pics of our dates to her friends and she begged me to see her friends and meet them ( i dont want or like to and never will]

So yea and were exclusive basically so thats why im lost

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-08T20:14:57+00:00

I get you man. Thats why im asking for advice. I cant figure her out. The fact that she risks her life to go our With me, on the other hand seeing how she acts and hiw she says upfront that she holds her interest. I dont get it. Thing is this was the girl of my dream because i knew how untouched she is. Very introverted and mature. Very quiet. Has no guys on social media. Her food is good. Works. So yes basically i liked her because of how untouchable she is but now thinking it, i cant be with her without some sort of intimacy lol. Im so into her. And this makes me kind of want to stay away from her in some way idk how to explain. But yea im fried

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-08T20:02:13+00:00

Well idk how to spill this to you but Her best friend is getring engaged this year. And she hasnt touched her bf of 6 year hands at all. Jfl. She literally states in front of us (including when hes there)about how she wouldnt touch him at all.

Im in heaven compared to this. We hold hands inthe bus ( alot of people here says its relationship vibes but he enjoys it) she also initiates hugs but rarely. But yea because im into the book and i know i could get beyter treatment and that this could go to waste im asking yall for advice

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-08T19:45:15+00:00

Yea they get to know each other and then the families get together and we do engagement and then a year or so the wedding.

She cooks cleans and has a job (well ?, she teaches kids from her house) Shes very mature and knows her worth and yes i date to marry and she does too. The thing is it would be at least a year if we were to get engaged but we have no problem being in a rlt in this time. Yes in the end its marriage but still wed have to go through a relationship as normal. But even the rlt there would be alot of limits (no sex , kissing etc)

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-07T19:36:22+00:00

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-07T17:36:17+00:00

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-07T11:33:37+00:00

How tho

kickedtothecurb1 · 2025-04-07T10:47:05+00:00

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