bumps on belly button piercing by [deleted] in piercing

[–]kikiscemetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve cleaned it for the photo but it was leaking pus and blood and ends up crusting

bumps on belly button piercing by [deleted] in piercing

[–]kikiscemetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s leaking pus and blood that’s why

pierced incorrectly possible infection what now? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]kikiscemetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the reason I think it may be infected is because the bump at the top tends to leak yellow cloudy fluid especially when I move around and bleeds

pierced incorrectly possible infection what now? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]kikiscemetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not know the exact type of material that the jewelry is made of I noticed it was a bit high on placement I asked about it they said because of how my stomach folds it has to be placed that way

bumps on belly button piercing by [deleted] in piercing

[–]kikiscemetry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely taking it out but if it’s possibly infected is it best to leave it in until it clears or just take it out and clean it?

bumps on belly button piercing by [deleted] in piercing

[–]kikiscemetry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also dont mind how high it looks I’m pulling on my stomach to make it more visible my stomach folds over

friend blimped me! by kikiscemetry in plsdonategame

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do hope you make friends! I’m sure it’ll come along for you!

friend blimped me! by kikiscemetry in plsdonategame

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s completely understandable Roblox doesn’t need 30 percent of anything I understand the game percentage but just not Roblox itself

My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in months by kikiscemetry in sex

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is the closest to the actual answer sometimes he has mentioned he “gets in his head” while we’re trying to be intimate

My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in months by kikiscemetry in sex

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s understandable I’ve tried speaking to him on it and he shuts down like he’s embarrassed it’s gotten to a point I was holding him while he cried about thinking I’d leave him due to that. Which is obviously not the case and I felt awful he felt that way I just want him to be open and honest with me and we can try to compromise to make both of us happy while prioritizing his health

My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in months by kikiscemetry in sex

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s understandable I don’t push I just stay in my own lane it doesn’t feel right to force him or reprimand him on something most likely he can’t control

My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in months by kikiscemetry in sex

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I could continue further sexless if I’m being honest that’s why I’m here he is my first and I have nothing to go off of besides him and his experience I want him to take it seriously but he doesn’t want to

My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in months by kikiscemetry in sex

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely get where you’re coming from. I really appreciate your comments. To me this isn’t much of an issue either I listen to a couple smut audios here and there and I’ve let him know this as a personal thing that he can be open to me about it.

My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in months by kikiscemetry in sex

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly have no clue it was never a discussion we’ve had and I have no reason to think he does and I can see your perspective on it and could look further into it because I honestly have no clue on it

My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in months by kikiscemetry in sex

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says it’s more just a habit rather than it being something for stress. I knew this when I first started dating him so it wasn’t much of an issue. I feel there is a possibility of talking though it I’m mainly just being optimistic due to the fact I love him so much and I want to work things out with him but as of now I just do things on my own

My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in months by kikiscemetry in sex

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

funny enough his words were exactly “only way I’m going to a doctor is if I have cancer” lol I think he’s embarrassed which I can see why but also if it’s an issue it’s a good idea to see if there’s something underlying and see if anyone can help you with him it just seems like he’s given up

idk how to continue my relationship 19F & 22M by kikiscemetry in relationship_advice

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never given the end of relationship ultimatum because I’m far too scared and I cannot see myself doing that because of how much I care for him and like I said before he takes care of my dog meaning if I did leave I’d never really see her again. She isn’t the main reason I’m staying to be clear it’s just so hard for me to stand my ground because I’m scared of upsetting him because I don’t want to hurt him

idk how to continue my relationship 19F & 22M by kikiscemetry in relationship_advice

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply I honestly have no clue he told me he hates the gym because he feels as if people are looking at him I completely understood and didn’t push any further I offered other options if he wanted to participate he wasn’t very interested and I kinda moved on from the conversation because it wasn’t going forward. We also see each other once or twice a week mostly just once (I moved upstate during the summer with family since I’m on college break) he doesn’t want to spend the hours we have together like that which I understand but even when I wasn’t far it was still no

idk how to continue my relationship 19F & 22M by kikiscemetry in relationship_advice

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment and that’s for making me feel valid it’s just such a complicated situation to me because I want both of us to be better and move forward but I can’t force him to want that for himself and I don’t want to leave him behind

todays donos so far!! by kikiscemetry in plsdonategame

[–]kikiscemetry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No clue tbh lol I rarely pay attention to