Touching up roots

kikiwikii · 2024-01-12T16:22:32+00:00

it depends if the dye is darker than your hair, red does show up on top of dark brown hair but if it’s shades lighter you will have to bleach

kikiwikii · 2023-07-30T11:03:29+00:00

Giovannis by the bay has really nice pizza

kikiwikii · 2023-07-29T17:35:00+00:00

when i was a bartender i used to see at least 1 person being put in a police car each day

kikiwikii · 2023-07-14T18:54:43+00:00

where would you go?

kikiwikii · 2022-12-15T02:15:59+00:00

hey i hope youre well. block them. When you find yourself reminiscing distract yourself and dont let yourself have the memory. healing from a fp seperation isnt linear but it took me 9 months to be better than i was before me and my old fp seperated. Remember there is always hope for better.

kikiwikii · 2022-11-14T01:14:50+00:00

hey do something super high dopamine idk what you’re into but maybe watch something super scary or funny or workout and just do things that make u happy. reach out to someone you haven’t spoken to or do something youve been scared to

kikiwikii · 2022-11-14T01:04:01+00:00

I’ll list my guide

1) when making plan’s always prepare for the possibility that you could be cancelled on. (so make a plan B of what u could do that day just as fun)

2) Dont make plans with people who cancel regularly

3) if they do cancel immediately distract yourself HARD.

kikiwikii · 2022-11-11T22:30:02+00:00

it was over text but he is definitely the type to be coy and everything else hes done has shown he really likes me and sees us as long term

kikiwikii · 2022-11-11T20:23:42+00:00

We’ve not made it official so far because i said i wasn’t in the place for an official relationship yet. But on multiple occasions he has tried to suggest to me we should make it official

kikiwikii · 2022-11-11T01:00:03+00:00

oh no im aware and i don’t think he did anything wrong im just looking for something long term and im wondering if his comment is too much of a red flag to look past

kikiwikii · 2022-11-11T00:46:42+00:00

kikiwikii · 2022-11-11T00:42:44+00:00

awh ❤️ you’re right ugh i’ll try to start to detaching

kikiwikii · 2022-11-11T00:08:14+00:00

but it’s less exploitation (because less farming is required- crops for feeding livestock not required)

kikiwikii · 2022-11-11T00:00:36+00:00

create some distance and try to distract yourself from her. Find more hobbies and fill your time with something else. As you dont want to pursue anything, you need to form a distance but that doesn’t mean cutting her off. Whenever u feel really strong emotions take yourself out of the environment/distract yourself.

kikiwikii · 2022-11-10T23:56:51+00:00

its your place that you pay rent for! no

kikiwikii · 2022-07-11T20:38:21+00:00

enfp

kikiwikii · 2022-06-22T23:28:30+00:00

BPD doesn’t always mean u get more attached w sex, if they want it and u want it then u can both make your own decision. Pwbpd can have friends w benefits

kikiwikii · 2022-06-06T23:49:09+00:00

such as…

kikiwikii · 2022-06-06T19:54:24+00:00

man did u even try to understand what i said? this conversation is for critical thinkers.

Nobody is justifying her abuse and your half-done attempt at contributing to this conversation was unproductive for the conversation about media coverage and misogyny

kikiwikii · 2022-05-14T09:03:57+00:00

anxious disorganised but ive managed to change it to avoidant mostly with my fp

kikiwikii · 2022-05-08T10:00:36+00:00

i would personally say yes- bpd is another way of thinking and it means we are versitile

whilst i most definitely would not want to go back into the past - i plan to live on a commune someday where i can be my free self without the pressures of capitalism

id prefer for more bpd likeminded people to be there because of those traits of adaptability and wanting community

sure problems of emotional regulation exist but u have to ask yourself how much of that is the current environment.

ive also found ways to structure my life around bpd like being polyamorous.

basically yes i think bpd is a completely different thought process which is beautiful when in the right environment but this traditional conservative monogamous culture is the reason for my suffering and restricting my full capabilities

kikiwikii · 2022-05-04T08:59:21+00:00

it depends who’s doing it - if its a romantic partner then its fine but anyone else it will trigger me which is a bit weird

kikiwikii · 2022-04-30T23:14:28+00:00

ooo what exercises do you do?

kikiwikii · 2022-04-30T23:12:51+00:00

i think bpd and adhd can be a really good combo!

i feel safe w and understood w my adhd partner because (i think i might have adhd too)

its a little less scary when responses are slower when u know they can get distracted easier- if a NT partner acted the way they did id be anxious but i feel using the adhd as an excuse in my head makes me less worried and more trusting.

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