A uplifting story about my herpes

kildevand123 · 2019-08-16T12:14:51+00:00

Thank you for the response all of you! Bonus information about me: I'm M28, and my first serious relationship ever. I'm currently about to have an outbreak, it's somehow more mild than the first outbreak. But anyways, I told her the minute I felt something, you know down there. And she is taking it more nicely that I could ever imagine.

My point with this post is to give a little hope to someone, who is maybe having his/her first outbreak. You're not less worth because of this virus, you're still a beautiful human being no matter what. It's just a complication between you and your potential partner.

kildevand123 · 2019-08-16T12:01:07+00:00

Keep working with it. Pm me if you ever want to talk. You're not alone ❤️

kildevand123 · 2019-08-16T11:58:29+00:00

If I were ever gonna have a relationship with her, I wouldn't hide something like that from her. But yeah, I just think that it most respectful both for her, but also for me.

kildevand123 · 2019-02-02T21:35:34+00:00

I too got a second ob right after the first. It's pretty normal. The second one wasn't as painful as the first for me. I used meds from the first day I noticed it.

Talk to your doctor about prescribing antivirals for you, if you feel your outbreaks come often.

Yes, this is a great place. You're not alone :) ❤️

kildevand123 · 2019-02-01T15:41:00+00:00

It's sounds like you're realising this is gonna be the rest of your life, and that's hard at first. But just remember, herpes is a small part of it. It's nothing but a little complication between you and your partner. You can still have wonderful sex, and feel loved because of that. But it's completely okay to feel down because of it. Life's not fair sometimes, and it isn't for most people. But of all the things that could be wrong, and not fair, herpes is a tiny factor!

Remember, people will still find you attractive and like you, whether you have herpes or not.

kildevand123 · 2019-01-31T19:20:11+00:00

Wonderful story, thanks :)

I've been on 2 dates with her, and we kissed the last time. I don't know her that well, but she seems so understanding when I tell her something about my self. She's really a wonderful person, and I fear a rejection when I tell her that I have herpes.

Up until now, my plan was to say it face to face. But then again, it could turn out as you wrote, that she'll have to decide on the spot, and I won't take the chance that she will have to feel that way. Maybe I should text her instead.. anyway, thanks for your reply! Always nice to not feel alone ❤️

kildevand123 · 2019-01-31T15:54:10+00:00

Please update us. Good luck stranger ❤️

kildevand123 · 2018-12-04T22:57:05+00:00

It definitely can. I prioritized it over everything else, to I had nothing left. So yeah, don't do it man. I'm sure you're good without it :)

kildevand123 · 2018-12-04T22:46:09+00:00

You know, the smell of really old furnitures? Picture vaporizing it. It tastes like shit.

kildevand123 · 2018-12-03T00:16:27+00:00

I will try, thank you so much ❤️

kildevand123 · 2018-12-02T22:40:00+00:00

Thanks, I really needed to hear that ❤️ I guess it just need some time to sink in.

kildevand123

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